Hate word, or is it?

Is this a hate word, I don't think so. I don't have a problem with it, or being call it. How about Queer?

If you have a problem with these two words, then you should have a problem with the word gay.

It's the same for the word Dyke, if you have a problem with it then you should have a problem with the word Lesbians.

If we as a community has a problem with this words then the only would we should use is homosexual.