Something to think about

I did a twitter post where I said that a few members of the First Baptist Church of Rocky Mount, NC were on the dl(down low or in the closet). A friend on twitter sent me the following to me,

if they are on the DL and are openly for NC4Marriage should they be outed? ethics and other considerations to think about..

I agree that they should be outed if they do fully support NC4Marriage group, however if they are just basic members of the church then its not my job. These men have wives and kids which I will not tear about.

One might ask how I know this about them, well in my early days (18-21 years of age)i was really a go getter in the bar and fun scene, (battle park), this park was raid several times in the early 90's which you can find in the achieves of the News and Observer newspapers.

Now like many of the older lgbt community who was once marry to the opposite sex, they grow in a different time, where they had to hide who they truly were. I will not be apart that will destroy a family. Soley because I know once they are outed or if they come out that there is a good chance will be lost the right to a parent to their child. This I know for a fact, my ex-wife knew before we got married, we had one child, when we left each other the local judge in the county that we were living at the time, simply ask her how long she knew, once she told the judge form day 1 the judge told her that she will not consider or listen to any part of my sexuality. that is why she ran tot a state where she could used it against me.

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Question for the bible beaters

The following passage shows that slaves are clearly property to be bought and sold like livestock.

    However, you may purchase male or female slaves from among the foreigners who live among you.  You may also purchase the children of such resident foreigners, including those who have been born in your land.  You may treat them as your property, passing them on to your children as a permanent inheritance.  You may treat your slaves like this, but the people of Israel, your relatives, must never be treated this way.  (Leviticus 25:44-46 NLT)

    The following passage describes how the Hebrew slaves are to be treated.

    If you buy a Hebrew slave, he is to serve for only six years.  Set him free in the seventh year, and he will owe you nothing for his freedom.  If he was single when he became your slave and then married afterward, only he will go free in the seventh year.  But if he was married before he became a slave, then his wife will be freed with him.  If his master gave him a wife while he was a slave, and they had sons or daughters, then the man will be free in the seventh year, but his wife and children will still belong to his master.  But the slave may plainly declare, 'I love my master, my wife, and my children.  I would rather not go free.'  If he does this, his master must present him before God.  Then his master must take him to the door and publicly pierce his ear with an awl.  After that, the slave will belong to his master forever.  (Exodus 21:2-6 NLT)

    Notice how they can get a male Hebrew slave to become a permanent slave by keeping his wife and children hostage until he says he wants to become a permanent slave.  What kind of family values are these?

    The following passage describes the sickening practice of sex slavery.  How can anyone think it is moral to sell your own daughter as a sex slave?

    When a man sells his daughter as a slave, she will not be freed at the end of six years as the men are.  If she does not please the man who bought her, he may allow her to be bought back again.  But he is not allowed to sell her to foreigners, since he is the one who broke the contract with her.  And if the slave girl's owner arranges for her to marry his son, he may no longer treat her as a slave girl, but he must treat her as his daughter.  If he himself marries her and then takes another wife, he may not reduce her food or clothing or fail to sleep with her as his wife.  If he fails in any of these three ways, she may leave as a free woman without making any payment.  (Exodus 21:7-11 NLT)

    So these are the Bible family values!  A man can buy as many sex slaves as he wants as long as he feeds them, clothes them, and screws them!

NC4Marriage Bigots

NC4Marriage Bigots are up in arm over the Vermont Leislature that over ride the Veto of Same Sex Marriage.

The legalization of homosexual "marriage" in Iowa and Vermont adds fuel to the fire of the argument that the North Carolina General Assembly needs to pass the Defense of Marriage Act which will allow the voters of North Carolina the right to vote on a Marriage Protection Amendment to our Constitution. Without protection in our State Constitution for the definition of marriage, North Carolina's marriage laws could be subject to the same type of judicial activism or legislative redefinition that has occurred in Iowa and Vermont. It is the people of North Carolina that deserve to make the decision about what relationships the law will recognize as "marriage."

If that wasn't bad enough they even add the following,

Politicians should never impose a system that intentionally deprives a child of a mother and father. The state should do everything necessary to ensure that children aren’t denied their most important birthright: a mom and a dad. North Carolina politicians need to quit playing "chicken" with our State's marriage laws. The time to protect marriage in our Constitution is now!

Well I don't know who or which bigot wrote the blog post, click here to view, I can think who might have, a certain blond headed bigot does come to mind real fast. I hate to inform this sick group of bigots but the state as a program/law that does just what she doesn't want to happen to the kids. It's call DIVORCE, yes in divorce one parent will almost be cut completely out of their child(ren) lives, i know this first hand.(i'm a gay father who was once legally marry to a complete bitch)

What they don't want the people to know that kids of gay parents are less racist and less of a bigot then those raise by str8 parents who teach their kids to hate, yes these kids are taught to hate gays, in most cases as well blacks and any other group that their so-call parents don't like. Tami Fitzgerald, is nothing more then a bigot by her own right. I would have to wonder exactly what type of Lawyer she is, I sure she wouldn't take a case that involve a gay person for any reason.

What ever happen to the separation of Church and State,
you have see this bigot is action,


I hate the tell this jerk Pastor Olden Thornton, that the bible was once use to justify keeping blacks as slaves.

Mommy Duck and her Ducklings

Out's Power Fifty

50. Urvashi Vaid

Glad to she her back in the spotlight
49. Simon Halls and Stephen Huvane/Previously 37th
48. Jim Nelson/Previously 33rd
47. Greg Berlanti/Previously 19th
46. Hilary Rosen
45. Tim Gunn/Previously 28th

wow still going on, can't wait for the new Project Runway
44. Jason Wu

Wow, make a dress and get the new first lady to wear and you are in. NOT

43. Perez Hilton/Previously 16th

WTF, why why why, no f'ing comment here
42. Rosie O'Donnell/Previously 31st

She need to get back in the game, she should redo her talk show. I miss her
41. Nate Berkus/Previously 21st
40. Nancy Sutley
39. Ron Huberman
38. Tom Ford/Previously 25th
37. Adam Moss/Previously 29th
36. Jodie Foster/Previously 13th
35. Wanda Sykes/
34. Nick Denton/Previously 22nd
33. Martha Nelson/Previously 17th
32. Chris Hughes
31. Jeremy Bernard and Rufus Gifford/Previously 32nd
30. Brian Graden/Previously 15th
29. Michael Patrick King
28. Neil Patrick Harris
27. Christine Quinn/Previously 18th
26. Bryan Lourd and Kevin Huvane/Previously 42nd
25. Dustin Lance Black

wow take a documentary make it in a screen movie and voila your a hit
24. Andrew Tobias/Previously 6th
23. Andrew Sullivan/Previously 20th
22. Suze Orman/Previously 24th
21. Anthony Romero/Previously 23rd
20. Peter Thiel/Previously 10th
19. Rich Ross/Previously 14th
18. Scott Rudin/Previously 11th
17. Jann Wenner/Previously 7th
16. Jared Polis/
15. Marc Jacobs/Previously 9th
14. Gus Van Sant/
13. The New York Times Gay Mafia/Previously 12th
12. Fred Hochberg/Previously 26th
11. Tammy Baldwin
10. David Geffen/Previously 4th
9. Joe Solmonese/Previously 8th
8. Barry Diller
7. Bishop Gene Robinson
6. Matt Drudge
5. Tim Gill/Previously 5th
4. Rachel Maddow
3. Anderson Cooper/Previously 3rd
2. Ellen DeGeneres/Previously 1st
1. Barney Frank/Previously 2nd

Just a Thought

When I snap this shot I had to wonder if we as gays and lesbians we every be this free to show this type of affection in public.

Do you ever think we will be this free?