Things I have notice

Ok, where to begin. I haven't visited Qnotes in a long time.. Personally I thing they should change their name back to Queen City Notes, Since they are still only focusing on the LGBT people who work and live in Charlotte, NC.

I know this might sound petty, but if you are going to claim to be for all state of NC, they you need to PRESENTED,  the whole state.. However they still believe there is no LGBT people east of I95..

I was shock to learn that they long term editor Matt Comer has move on.. Im sure he is better off and I hope he is doing well for himself..

Now to my point,

They have recently posted a piece on the New Years Events in the city. But only Charlotte, other NC cities with large population of LGBT isn't listed.. I have to wonder why?

Click Here to read the piece for yourself. written by Jeff Taylor / Social Media Editor.

Now I'm sure Raleigh Bars are bring in the New Year in Style too, but why aren't they listed.. It seems to me that new editor in chief is following the old Qnotes playbook, Charlotte, Charlotte, CHARLOTTE.. yet the new editor isn't list on the page staff info sheet..

I can only hope in 2018 the Staff of Qnotes will embrace the entire NC LGBT Community, I hope I'm not asking too much.. We shall see whats to come..

Really, #ThinkProgress, should change it name to Think Kim Davis page

Have you been to ThinkProgress site lately, its Kim Davis every where, just how many stories can one write about a religionist bigot?? Really..

It that time once again,

Hey LGBT folks in Charlotte, where you get to pick which Bartender with the hottest body..

via Qnotes,

Do you have what it takes to be Charlotte’s Favorite LGBT Bartender? Do you serve up the best queer cocktail in town? Think your patrons agree? Then enter our second annual Charlotte’s Favorite LGBT Bartender contest today! Don’t delay! The contest entry period won’t last long!

Yes, cause as we all know that looks and a hot body is the prefer currency for the LGBT Community.

but, don’t worry, they have cover their assess,

Entrants will not be discriminated against on the basis of race, color, religion, ancestry, national origin, gender, socioeconomic status, academic status, gender identity, physical appearance, sexual orientation, or mental, physical, developmental, or sensory disability.

Gay Bashing Str8’s, who knew?

Welcome 2015..

Over at Qnotes there is a piece talking about the new Speaker of the House of the NCGA, and his anti-gay past.. I guess it took a while for Matt and NC Gayiner’s to put this piece together.

So Moore, supported the State Anti-LGBT marriage amendment, didn’t think a LGBT group at college should get funds.

he has this to say on the matter,

“At the heart of the issue was the belief that we shouldn’t use taxpayer dollars or student fees to fund a gay and lesbian group, as well as a lot of other groups for that matter,” Moore told the Raleigh paper.

He has stated that he would continue to defend the state Anti-gay marriage amendment.. So, now NC GayInc is after him.. what is he to do??

Here comes Equality NC,

Advocates for LGBT equality in the state said Friday they were disappointed with Moore’s comments.

“I think what was troubling is that Moore doubled down on his comments instead of apologizing for them at this point in 2015,” Equality North Carolina Executive Director Chris Sgro told qnotes.

Yes, you see you must bow down and kiss gayinc ass for your past mistakes.. NOT!!!

This Piece is you usual attack piece from GayInc here in NC.

But what is shocking is the Str8 bashing in the Comments.. (see I can’t comment on any piece at Qnotes, cause the truth hurts, and they can’t stand it).

see screen shot of the comments,

now if this was the other way around, Matty would have deleted the comments asap, So we have (assuming these are gay folks) laughing at a str8 maybe), and stating that he need to just to come out..

See, folks, GayInc want you to believe that all LGBT folks are not bigots, or bullies, and so, that we are good little boys and girls, with not one evil bone in our bodies.. When the truth that we bully our own, that we support gay on gay hate crimes, that we just as anti-(anything) just like everyone else.

We are our own worst enemy. we bash each other, we use those slurs that we don’t want others to call us. Yes, you know them, Fag, Faggot, cocksucker, bitch, dyke, slur, and the list goes on and on.

See we are like ex-gay is a scam, while we support gay for pay men are not bi or gay, they are jus doing it for the money.. Bullshit, most of these fuckers are gay, just don’t want the title. The others are just using our community..

we are just like everyone else in the world, no better, no worst..

Folks without a Life,

A line has already begun forming at the Supreme Court to hear arguments on Proposition 8 and DOMA which are next week on Tuesday and Wednesday. The line apparently began forming yesterday.

(image patrick terpstra twitter)

What is this Cis Shit, in our community??

we wonder why we are attack over and over, and why so many think Transsexual/transgender need medical attention..

I agree with 3 and 4, but 2 is complete bullshit, if you look like a ma am, that is what I going to call, if you look like a sir that is what I going to call you. and for 5 the last time I check there was only two genders on this planet.. Male and Female.

One Reason why they (str*) hate us,

we have to put Gay into everything..’

Tweets and Qnotes Editor, and a rant..

First off I have been block (till I give an online apology to few GayIncers), which will never happen, from commenting on Qnotes Website and on Facebook, however this isn’t a big lost.

Recently Matt the editor of Qnotes wrote about a Rally and protest in Charlotte, NC. Who was the Ralliers and who were the Protesters?? It would seen that two local hate groups teamed up for a Rally, the Neo Nazis and the KKK. The Protesters were and is everyone who hate these two groups. The best part of the Protest were the clowns with their WHITE FLOUR rally cry, instead of WHITE POWER.

I tweet the following,

OMFG: really@qnotescarolinas when did it become our job to counter protest every hate group rally#gayinc #kkk #protests

I normally don’t get a reply back from Qnotes at all.. But on this one I did get a reply, Shocking isn’t.. here it is,,

@sickntired08 We didn't protesting. We reported. Many#LGBT ppl were present & the groups are anti-gay. Seems fair game for coverage.

ok so he reply but didn’t reply to what I was really tweating about, I was tweeting about this piece that he wrote,

Lack of local LGBT response questioned after hate groups rally

November 13, 2012 in News by Matt Comer

he reply to this one.

Neo-Nazi, KKK groups to rally in Uptown today

November 10, 2012 in News by Matt Comer

I’m glad that he cover the hate group event, but he basically bitch about that the local LGBT community leaders didn’t know about it or showed up to join in the protest.. of these two groups..

Now Since the Gay Agenda handbook have been lost, and we are just making shit up as we go along.. When and Where did it come to become that we as a community must show up and protest every damn hate group who comes to town??

Now the KKK and Neo Nazis have every right to hold rallies and hate who ever they like, just as we do.

SPLC have listed a bunch of Groups as Hate groups to kiss GayInc’s ass. Now why doesn’t SPLC take the list that they used to see who is a hate group and start judging some of our LGBT Groups.. to see how many fit their definition of a hate group.

I’m sure Matt would agree that I border on the line as a person of hate. Simply because I don’t follow GayINC playbook. Nor will I ever.

I see that we are forcing issues on folks, just like many of these hate groups do. Like the Lesbians who are forcing photographers, and land owner to host and photograph their wedding, Gay couple forcing Private BnB’s to give them a room for the weekend, Bakery to baker their special treats.. I firmly believes these folks sought out these Bakers, photographer, inn owners and caters who they knew that wouldn't take their business.

All so they could force these issues on them.. Making them the bullies now.

I have seen this type of action before and also read about it in the history books..

Our current actions of getting equality is becoming like what the Christians did to so many back in the day. Join us and do as we say or we will destroy you.. lucky so far GayINC has starting killing folks yet.. Well, that we know of..

GayINC via their many groups are slowing destroy our community.. We have Glaad who claim to be watching the media groups, while making under the table deal to look the other way on the actions of a few groups. Then HRC, who claims to be working so hard for us, why they are picking and choosing who to protect in our community.. and which group to throw under the bus to get some protection for the larger group..

But lets not forget my local Equality group here in NC,, i.e. Equality NC, who steal other people ideals and then tries to pass them off as theirs. Who did a postcard campaign to help prevent a vote on a constitutional amendment, but deliver the cards on the morning of the vote, which the senators at the NCGA didn’t get to see those cards from their constituents  at all. which meant it was a complete total waste of time and money.

Equality NC is hiring, they must have found some money in the couch cushion…

Can you believe it, ENC is hiring, details below the fold..

I guess they had some money left over via one of their many fund raiser..

they left out one major Qualifications you must be able to stab your fellow community members in the back to get ahead..

O my, Goodasyou has block me on twitter, what will I do now..

visit his twitter account while being logout, that is..

Is Katey Sagal support of Marriage equality just a PR stunt to advance her career??

from the advocate,

Katey Sagal, whose portrayal of Peg Bundy on Married…With Children left viewers with an indelible impression of wedded life, wants everyone to have access to the institution.

The actress appears in a new video for Americans for Marriage Equality, the public engagement effort from the Human Rights Campaign featuring prominent spokespeople from the worlds of politics, entertainment and sports.

I say she jumping on this bandwagon because her career isn’t really going any where.. She hope this will help her career. Just another straight actor/ess using us as usual..

Qnotes picks and chose which Events are more worthy to write about.

Did you know that every year here in NC there is two Pagan Pride events? However if you go by Qnotes the only main one is the one Dallas NC, the Piedmont Pagan Pride Day.

The two Pride are as follow, Raleigh Pagan Pride, which used to Central Pagan Pride and the Piedmont Pagan Pride, the Piedmont Pride is held one week after Raleigh’s Pagan Pride.

This year Lainey Millen wrote about this event, she wrote the piece on the starting day of the Raleigh Pagan Pride day. however as seen in the screen shot below Raleigh PPD was more or less a foot note. You see only those events West of Raleigh is important to Qnotes, those events in Charlotte gets top billing..

Yet they claim to cover all of the North Carolina, but the truth is that they only cover Charlotte, Asheville, Greensboro follow by Durham and Raleigh and if you live in Eastern NC just forget it, cause you are a waste of time and money.. They also cover any major GayINC events.. the rest just get foot notes.. in their paper and online.

also let it be known that the Raleigh PPD is much larger then the Piedmont PPD event.. this Year Raleigh PPD was the largest ever.

I wonder just how many label whores have this?

Louis Vuitton waffle maker, however its not for mass distribution, but I’m sure there are a few label whore who need this.. and will try to get it.

This and That from the LGBT Community…

Well I guess we sure start off with my favorite site, Q-notes.

Qnotes every two week release it new Newspaper/e-paper or e-mag. Some time back they start releasing this paper on another site. They used to have a download link, where you could download a current issue as a pdf. However site the new editor and the returning editor could never get the link to work right on the day of the release it would seem that Matt the returning editor has decided to do away with the link.

The GA Voice is reporting the following,

LGBT activists say they are planning a protest of Sharon Needles' appearance in Atlanta on Wednesday, claiming the winner of "RuPaul's Drag Race" is guilty of racist and bigoted comments. But Needles has defended her work and the host of her Atlanta appearance said he has not been able to document instances of offensive behavior.

God forbid is you don’t do as Gay Inc say or approve of you actions. They will send their minions to protest you and in general fuck up your livelihood.  

Recently there was LGBT reception at the Whitehouse, where some of our so called LGBT thought it was funny giving the Middle finger to Reagan

Three LGBT activists,  Mark Segal, Matthew “Matty” Hart and  Zoe Strauss, are under fire today for posting photographs of themselves on Facebook giving the middle finger to President Ronald Reagan’s official portrait while attending the LGBT Pride Reception at the White House.

these are the people who is representing us as a community, Really bitches Please. More Gay INCers acting like complete faggots and cunts in public.

Here is another Local well known Gay Activist making us all look bad and as pedophiles,

Veteran LGBT rights activist Larry Brinkin was arrested on Friday for the possession of child pornography. Brinkin is a former member of the San Francisco Human Rights Commission.

Police say that Brinkin had pornographic images, some that appear to show children as young as 1 and 2 or 3 years old being sodomized and performing oral sex on adult men, in e-mail attachments linked to his account, according to a search warrant served by San Francisco police. Representatives of America Online contacted authorities after coming across e-mail attachments from one of its subscriber's accounts containing what they believed to be child pornography. The Los Angeles Police Department, which was assigned to the case, traced the IP address associated with the account, Zack3737@aol.com, to Brinkin, a San Francisco resident, according to court records. Los Angeles police forwarded the case to San Francisco police. San Francisco investigators say the account was registered to Brinkin, and that he paid for the e-mail service with his credit card. Police provided two examples of e-mail messages from last year in which Zack3737 provides disturbing descriptions of the exploitive sexual acts.

naturally Fundie Bryan Fisher didn’t waste anytime tweeting his thoughts.

Remember this

Eastern NC Doesn’t matter to Qnotes nor Equality NC..

Matt the Editor of the Q-notes said so.

Eastern NC is a waste of time and money, and yes I’m paraphrasing. They have limit resources and since Eastern NC is as large as Charlotte, Ashville, Greensboro, Durham, Raleigh or Chapel Hill, we are not worthy to be included in theirs newspaper.

However we might for the next two to three issues,, (more on that later), wait they did a few pieces on the first ever Outer Bank Pride fest.. Crumbs at best..

No at Qnotes goes out of their to do stories about the East, hell when the housing market failure, they make a lot of calls to real estate agents in Charlotte and the surrounding area, even Raleigh, but they just could bring themselves to call or email any Agents in the East. I can only guess that their computer crash, and the phones were cut, and their cell were being jammed..

Now Matty, attacks me thru my partner,, just how lame is that. He is to much a fucking coward that he couldn’t attack me directly..

Yes I went off after I found out that Equality Marriage Rally being held the following Day. Just who ideal was it, to hold it the very following day??

This douchebag, Alex Miller the new intern director which I’m the ENC Group will make give him the full job very soon..

Yes I said I hope that bills 777 and 106 passes and are voted into law.. Why, simple ENC and other group have fail LGBT Community in NC, not one fucking equality group ever try to sue to over turn the state law that states what marriage is and between who.. ENC sat around and did almost nothing for year, except give us galas, days of action, post cards and a stupid ass Fruit loop campaign..

Yes I said that I hope any car pools and buses get double flats  on their way there.. I hope that it will storm like hell..

I also hope that Every anti-gay person shows up too. Yes over all I hope the Rally and Vigils fail..

ENC is only trying to protect those jobs that are there.. ENC is now officially apart of GAY Inc..

(image used under fair use law)

Qnotes Story of the week

Via Qcloset,

Matt quoted the N&O editorial Called Disruption,

the Quote from N&O,

They also escalated a tactic that’s been used before in the current legislative session. Twice, protesters in the visitors galleries have interrupted business on the floor. One of those incidents, late last month, led to the arrest of the NAACP’s state president. Taking protests to the chamber floor intensifies the potential for confrontation. It vents anger and frustration but otherwise accomplishes nothing.

There are countless reasons why many North Carolinians are upset with the current, Republican-controlled General Assembly. GOP-backed bills calling for a constitutional amendment to bar gay marriage or domestic partnerships certainly rank near the top of that list. Such an amendment, limiting citizens’ rights, would be unwise and unhelpful. But if it is to be defeated, it will have to be by winning arguments and gaining votes, not by outshouting people or shutting down the legislative process.

Now is the problem, I have been officially block by Matt from Commenting  on any story, no matter if my comment is neg or pos,

but I just love this comment

Now If I wrote this it would have been block or removed..

So Appellation calls GetEqual Pathetic, Where was Appellation, Was he at the Rally, or the bookstores or the parks tearooms????

Gay Adoption/Marriage = lost of parents on 9/11

this is the sick comparison made by Renewing American Leadership chairman Jim Garlow at the recent Faith and Freedom conference in DC.

I have to wonder what he was smoking or drinking right before the speech.. Cause we all know that kids are better in homes where mommy and daddy, beat, kick, burn, starve them to death.

Where in Gay parents homes they better off,and receive the love they deserve.

Q-The Double Standard??

When Equality NC was planning their Town hall Events,, Qnotes ran a piece with all the info and location, Yet they really didn’t give that much about the Greenville, NC Event. Since we all know that Q-notes don’t care about Eastern Carolina at all.

There is the proof,

How nice, a small tidbit “Another upcoming town hall will include a Greenville event on April 6.” No location given, so this Event happen somewhere in Greenville. Thankfully Equality NC did give more info then Qnotes did.

Which brings me to my current point..

See this post,

S.C. LGBT group to meet with FBI,

See South Carolina is more important to Qnotes then Eastern Carolina.


I really have to wonder why Qnotes doesn’t like the EAST??? O, I’m sure the closer we get to first annual gay pride event on the OBX, Qnotes will be a buzz with all the events and activities..

Some Just don’t get it: even hateful speech is still free speech, Period, get the F Over it.

This biweekly issue of Qnotes has a very interesting Poll. It deals with free speech. Many feel that their should be limits on it,only if its hateful or disrespectful. Well, folks the truth is on this one, you can’t have it both ways.. Free Speech is not a one way street.

Qnotes: POLL on this


Now some self hating jerk has voted No, on this poll. Well I’m sure this person in the future will not be at any protest or rallies. Cause face it, The right wing claims that gay friendly speech is hateful to them,and we claim their speech is hateful to us.

So who is right and who is wrong???


Wikipedia has this to say about Free Speech,

Freedom of speech in the United States is protected by the First Amendment to the United States Constitution and by many state constitutions and state and federal laws. Criticism of the government and advocacy of unpopular ideas that people may find distasteful or against public policy, such as racism, sexism, and other hate speech are almost always permitted. There are exceptions to these general protections, including the Miller test for obscenity, child pornography laws, speech that incites imminent lawless action, and regulation of commercial speech such as advertising. Within these limited areas, other limitations on free speech balance rights to free speech and other rights, such as rights for authors and inventors over their works and discoveries (copyright and patent), interests in "fair" political campaigns (Campaign finance laws), protection from imminent or potential violence against particular persons (restrictions on fighting words), or the use of untruths to harm others (slander). Distinctions are often made between speech and other acts which may have symbolic significance.

Flag desecration has continually, albeit controversially, been protected by the First Amendment, despite state laws to the contrary. A Constitutional Amendment has been introduced to contravene the First Amendment's protection on flag burning, but it has failed to acquire the requisite enactment by all the states.
Despite the exceptions, the legal protections of the First Amendment are some of the broadest of any industrialized nation, and remain a critical, and occasionally controversial, component of American jurisprudence.

Yes I had to post my comment here on my blog since the editor of Qnotes still have a bone up his ass and won’t allow me to post comments no matter positive or negative, till I apologize to him a few others, well that day won’t be coming any time soon.. 

It all about sex in public parks..

Matt is determine to set the record straight on sex acts in Charlotte Public Parks…

The myth that gay men are predators is nothing new. Most gay or bisexual men hear it at some point in their lives, even from family members or close friends. The prejudiced myth dates back decades, if not centuries. A now-infamous educational film produced in 1958 and released in 1961 is among the most recognizable examples available in the public domain. Produced for the Inglewood, Calif., school district and police department, it cautions teenage boys against the evils of “homosexuals” lurking in public restrooms and parks.

Well, sometimes the truth hurts more then a lie. As much as Matt would like it not to be true, In many parks and restrooms around the country men to meet there for sex. To said that we don’t would be a right out lie.

Just because there isn’t a long list of arrests doesn’t mean that it doesn’t happen there. If one truly seek proof if sex is happening in your local parks, either str8 or gay. All one has to do is the following walk through your park, follow some the trails and if you see a lot of old used condoms and wrappers the chances are that sex has happen there..

Now for a fact, that most str8 couple have sex in their cars.. While most gay men don’t.. Also because most gay men don’t and won’t clean up after themselves in these parks they leave the proof behind.

So remember just because there is no arrest records doesn’t mean that sex isn’t happening in that park.

in the words of La Tour,

People are still having sex;
It's been going on for quite a while.
Perhaps it is quite fashionable.
It hasn't gone out of style.

It's a fact that people are still having sex;
It's rather obvious--
It's just what one expects.
The evidence is all around
That everyone in every town
Has had it at one time or another in their life.

At this very moment,
People are still having sex.
In a downtown condo
Or a street in the projects.
Even though you can't see them
Or hear their breathing sounds,
Someone in this world
Is having sex right now.