You’re fragile and words give you ouchies

Phil Labonte, who has a history of controversial comments about gays, is stirring the pot again by saying LGBT people don't have a “legit grievance” concerning slurs.

This the best part,

“Seen a lot of brouhaha on the interwebs about the revolver article. Of course lots of people are saying I should be beat up or killed or I should kill myself. So, basically the blogs n commenters on said blogs are saying this, ‘freedom of speech, so long as you don't offend me.’ So these people are of the same mindset of the people who said the Charlie Hebdo attacks in Paris were justified because some things are just too offensive. I fully understand that to some people it is offensive to hear the word ‘faggot’. I get it, you’re fragile and words give you ouchies. But remember what you’re asking for when you decry protecting the freedom of speech.

I love it, telling it like it is. Gayinc is fine with free speech, till you say something that they don’t like or want to hear..

You go Girl. Finally someone stands up too GLAAD

Now she's speaking out about it:

“There are such bigger problems… and then you've got organisations like GLAAD [Gay And Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation], which are f**king complete bulls**t.
“I mean let's look at it, it's gay and lesbian alliance against defamation, or whatever…. that's what it stands for, right? I mean would you agree that homosexuals, and the homosexual community, have bigger problems than the word faggot, you know what I mean?"

also, Banks pledges not to be torn down:

“Some people are Satanists, some people are Christians, some people are Jews, Buddhists, you know what I mean? Some people are still Nazis… there are some people who are still KKK members… Come on people, please. If you're trying to call me a homophobe, you're basically trying to imply that I’m insulting you for having sex with men. I have sex with men too – what the f**k?

“I have sex with men and women, do I have to take a picture of my licking a f**king pussy? What the f**k! It doesn't make any sense. It's so stupid. It's so stupid and it's so evil. And it's just like this stupid f**king media sh*t, you know what I mean? It's the media sh*t. And this is why I go about myself the way the way I go about myself, and I do whatever the f**k I want. If the media is going to build me up to tear me down, you motherf**kers are not going to tear me down.
“I just make these f**king raps, and I'm just gonna wear these outfits, and f**king live my life. I can't deal with you motherf**kers, I don't have time for this sh*t.”

More at The Music...

This isn’t allow at the NCGA

That is right your 1st Amendment Rights don’t apply on the side of the NCGA in Raleigh, well that is it your words are on cardboard that is.

You can speak your mind but you can’t display them.

Right after I took this shot the Capital/NCGA Police told him that he would have the lay the signs down or leave or be arrested.

This is one way the State is making money by arresting folks and hoping they will just pay the fine in court..

Its either full free speech or none at all..

Qnotes polls on the matter is getting very interesting.
as you can see the number of those folks whom believe its ok to block certain types of speech is growing.

What speech do these eight folks want to block. Hate speech, which is in itself is very hard to describe, since what is hateful to one may not be hateful to another.

So its either full free speech or none at all. So LGBT community what will it be, since we are just as guilty of hate speech against those whom don’t share our views.. Either we want full free speech or none. We can’t have it both ways, no matter what Gay Inc. Claims…

Comic’s on Notice don’t fuck with the Dykes in Canada…

This post could also be named with the LBGT Community standard be the Death of Free Speech in Canada and USA????

VIA the Advocate, My FoxLA, and Vancouver Sun.

- ((from left) Guy Earle and Lorna Pardy, photo credit to it owners taken from the Advocate.com))

Proving that the Canada BC Human Right Tribunal is a full fucking idiots. 

VANCOUVER -- A Toronto comedian and Vancouver restaurant owner were ordered to pay $22,500 by a B.C. Human Rights Tribunal on Thursday after the standup comic hurled a torrent of sexual insults at a woman and her same-sex partner during a comedy show three years ago.

Yes, another damn fucking D*ke Bitch who can’t take a joke is suing.

I have to wonder will LGBT Equality Rights be the final cut that Kills Free Speech in North America?? If so then I don’t want equality, I would RATHER HAVE MY FULL RIGHT OF FREE SPEECH, THEN EQUALITY.

The asshole who made the ruling Murray Geiger-Adam, said the following

“His attack showed every sign of being calculated to inflict as much damage as possible, in as short a time as possible, on her greatest vulnerabilities,” he wrote in the decision.

Geiger-Adams ordered Earle and Ishmail to pay a total of $22,500 for lost wages and for injury to dignity, feelings and self respect.

Just how did she have lost wages.. If this bitch so fucking delicate then she need to keep her sorry ass at home where it belongs. Then she pay the victim card, Look at me I’m a woman who can’t fend for myself.. yes I want to be equal to men, but I still want special protections since I a female.. 


Charles Demers, a Vancouver-based comedian, writer and political activist, said the case sets an unsettling precedent for comedians.

“This ruling is going to have an impact on professional comics who are now going to have a harder time starting up in new venues,” Demers said.

So I guess Clay Aiken will be suing Kathy G, for her remaks on his name Gay Aiken..

Also why so long,

Pardy said Earle directed homophobic and sexist insults at her when she was a patron, and he was the master of ceremonies at an open mic comedy show at the restaurant in 2007.

Comedic performer Ruven Klausner said while Earle might have offended and embarrassed Pardy, he doesn't believe Earle violated her human rights.

so will lgbt rights to equality = the death of free speech??

Some Just don’t get it: even hateful speech is still free speech, Period, get the F Over it.

This biweekly issue of Qnotes has a very interesting Poll. It deals with free speech. Many feel that their should be limits on it,only if its hateful or disrespectful. Well, folks the truth is on this one, you can’t have it both ways.. Free Speech is not a one way street.

Qnotes: POLL on this


Now some self hating jerk has voted No, on this poll. Well I’m sure this person in the future will not be at any protest or rallies. Cause face it, The right wing claims that gay friendly speech is hateful to them,and we claim their speech is hateful to us.

So who is right and who is wrong???


Wikipedia has this to say about Free Speech,

Freedom of speech in the United States is protected by the First Amendment to the United States Constitution and by many state constitutions and state and federal laws. Criticism of the government and advocacy of unpopular ideas that people may find distasteful or against public policy, such as racism, sexism, and other hate speech are almost always permitted. There are exceptions to these general protections, including the Miller test for obscenity, child pornography laws, speech that incites imminent lawless action, and regulation of commercial speech such as advertising. Within these limited areas, other limitations on free speech balance rights to free speech and other rights, such as rights for authors and inventors over their works and discoveries (copyright and patent), interests in "fair" political campaigns (Campaign finance laws), protection from imminent or potential violence against particular persons (restrictions on fighting words), or the use of untruths to harm others (slander). Distinctions are often made between speech and other acts which may have symbolic significance.

Flag desecration has continually, albeit controversially, been protected by the First Amendment, despite state laws to the contrary. A Constitutional Amendment has been introduced to contravene the First Amendment's protection on flag burning, but it has failed to acquire the requisite enactment by all the states.
Despite the exceptions, the legal protections of the First Amendment are some of the broadest of any industrialized nation, and remain a critical, and occasionally controversial, component of American jurisprudence.

Yes I had to post my comment here on my blog since the editor of Qnotes still have a bone up his ass and won’t allow me to post comments no matter positive or negative, till I apologize to him a few others, well that day won’t be coming any time soon.. 

The Great Chick-fil-A debate still going on Now in NC

This brouhaha began in February when this prissy kept boy, asshole blogger, whom has way too much time on his hands. Whom also has a very unhealthily obsession for Maggie and Brian over at NOM. Who visit their site and blogs every waking moment of the damn day.

He got his tightly whiteys in a knot when a Christian base company have millions to the WinShape Foundation.

The rest of Gay Inc., Bloggers and News outlets are pushing this so hard that it’s not funny. Gay Inc. and its minions won’t rest till Chick-fil-a files goes out of business. That is a main goal of Gay Inc., to get these Christian businesses out of business.

How Gay Inc. has got the colleges in their pockets as well. Gay Inc has now enlisting the LGBT college students in North Carolina to join in on this fight.

Duke University is now in the process of reviewing their relationship with Chick-fil-a, also the students over at NC State is also seeking to oust Chick-fil-a from their campus as well.

Also Gay Inc won’t rest till the freedom of religion is taken out of the 1st amendment.

“Providing food to these events or any event is not an endorsement of the mission, political stance or motives of this or any other organization,” stated Cathy.

Justine Hollingshead, director for N.C. State University’s GLBT Programs and Services, has indicated that there is talk among a variety of student groups on how the university should handle this situation. She feels that students, who have buying power, should have the last word on whether the establishment ought to be given the green light to stay or be asked to exit.

To Gay Inc. the only student who have buying power that matter is those LGBT students. All over Students whom don’t agree with Gay Inc. can take a walk..

The Double Standard LGBT use to define hate Speech

Is Jeebus a hate speech term, to most LGBT member the answer is no, Yet maybe to Christians it is.

So with that; why is ok for LGBT use anti-Christian term and hate speech, while demanding Christians stop using hate terms against us..

See the example below.. from FaceBook and from a Nation Blogger whom is among the first to be Nominated from a GLAAD AWARD.

Pam Spaulding: He's @PeterLaBarbera. He was tweeting from his Jeebus Blackberry.

Rachel Blair Perrone Jeebus is a hate term? Uh... what?

Rebecca Kell How do we define the term "hate speech?" Not how do they define it, but is there a definition that we use that can be applied to all speech to define if it's hate or not?

Carlos J. Rivera
There is no good definition of hate speech that satisfies everyone. There is a book called Speaking back: the free speech versus hate speech debate By Katharine Gelber that goes through the arguments. This is what I found on USLegal.com: Ha...te speech is a communication that carries no meaning other than the expression of hatred for some group, especially in circumstances in which the communication is likely to provoke violence. It is an incitement to hatred primarily against a group of persons defined in terms of race, ethnicity, national origin, gender, religion, sexual orientation, and the like. Hate speech can be any form of expression regarded as offensive to racial, ethnic and religious groups and other discrete minorities or to women.
LaBarbera is full of hate b/c of his family situation. He needs a shrink.

Tina Ciampa name calling is a form of violence. i wish everyone would knock it off.

Yet, each of these folks define hate speech differently.

so what does Jeebus means, A name used on progressive blogs to deride intolerant religious rightwingers ("fundies") who use the Christian faith as a flag and front for every one of their nastiest motivations, statements and actions, hiding hate behind professed faith. Basically "jeebus" is a code word for lefties permitting them to mock self-annointed religious frothing biters / ultraconservatives of the social or financial right who advocate selfishness and cruelty (via nutty religious errors) without actually deriding Jesus or Christianity itself which they don't have a problem with. Put alternatively, a person who follows the New Testament loves Jesus; a person who can't wait to take away sick benefits from a dying lesbian because God Hates Fags loves Jeebus. Get the diff?

So GayINC has said its ok for gays, lesbians and Transgenders folks to use hateful speech against those who used hate speech against us.  This makes us no better than them.

South Carolina Supreme Court knew that even hate speech is free speech

Greenville Circuit Judge Edward Miller had previously upheld Joseph D. Bane's 2008 conviction, but the Supreme Court said a city rule against remarks that “humiliate, insult or scare” was too vague. All five of the court's justices also agreed there was no evidence to convict Bane under other provisions of the ordinance. According to the opinion handed down Monday, Bane was fined $200 after preaching loudly against homosexuality in downtown Greenville and, according to testimony, calling two women “faggots” who would “burn in hell.” Bane's attorney, Samuel Harms, said the ruling means residents can once again “preach against homosexuality without the fear of being arrested by a city police officer.” Harms said the city should have realized its ordinance was unconstitutional and voluntarily dismissed the case.

I'm so glad that some Judges knows that even hate speech is still free speech.....

SNT: Being call a Fag from a Community Member

I once wrote that we do far more damage to ourselves and group then any outside force..That what is below as an example..

James Seabolt, recent Facebook comment,

Jamie Seabolt Why does the fags of West Virginia insist on being so third-world, backword, TRASHY!?!

Now this is from a person who wanted to be Mr Gay.Com, Where he was a silver finalist, community leader

jamie Seabolt
about me & why I’d like to be mr gay.com 2008
You could call me ambitious or someone with a flame lit under him, but I have always loved to help others. As a teen, I won grants to improve my West Virginia high school and logged the most community service hours in WV schools history. In my early 20s, I started two gay newspapers to fill much-needed gaps and Gay.com gave me a top five spot in their first "Entrepreneur of the Year" contest. Since then, I left gay media to expand my horizons as a positive gay male in corporate and federal government work. Now, I have moved into the Bible belt to Myrtle Beach where organizers fought for gay pride for over a decade against a narrow-minded city government. Here, I have continued my involvement with nonprofits and revived my gay media skills with a fresh-faced gay magazine. I am proud of our Southern gay culture, and with a minimum 5% of profits donated to gay charities, I work to bring equality and pride to gay life, which can successfully incorporate with our communities both large and small without sacrificing identity. With over 1,000 new people a week joining my new media venture, my initiative is infectious, inspiring all generations of LGBTIQ Carolinians to do the same.

he also a works/writes for a gay news group,

Stereotypd business and artistic director Porscha Yount, OnQ’s Jamie Seabolt and Stereotypd editor Lin Orndorf distributed a press release announcing the merger. In it, Seabolt is identified as the Asheville paper’s new publisher and Stereotypd is identified as “part of the OnQ Network.” A few days later, the new OnQ team announced a merger with the Charleston, S.C.-based Drag Magazine.

So will the gay community demand a apology from him for that comment???? or is a matter of free speech..Wow what a change, it would seem those in West Va has gone from being second class to third worlders, what is next..

Update, I wonder what Glaad has to say on this matter.. 

SNT: Not a free speech issue, I think it is....

Matt over that Q-note has written more about the county singer who was told not to come back to Reidsville..

But, we should be clear: This is not a Free Speech issue.
Let me repeat that, just for good measure: This is not a Free Speech issue.
Boswell is free to say whatever he likes, wherever he likes and whenever he likes in his private life. But when he is paid to perform, he is beholden to the desires and wishes of those who pay him. If the purchaser of his talent, in this case the City of Reidsville, decides she doesn’t like the talent or is uncomfortable with the content of his talent, the purchaser has every right of their own to choose not to pay for his talent again. That’s what City Manager Kelly Almond has done.

Ok, so the city hire them to sing for their event,

Was it written in the contact that his lyric must please all,

But he isn't the first signer we have bitch and whine about is he, a few can no longer play in clubs and other venue can they, a couple can't even travel to England now.. Yets they claim it not about free speech, then what is it about, I tell you what its about, its about not piss off the gays any. Cause now we are a bunch of whining ass babies, cry to big daddy (gov't) that we are being pick on..

in the 70 we came out of the closet, 80's we fought to stop aids, 90's we fought for full equality, 2000, we have become a bunch kids on the school yard during lunch time, crying about being call names... Names that we have hear since we can remember...

SNT: WTF is wrong with our community

City bans Country performer after anti-gay lyrics

What is our problem

The above image was a comment was I going to leave on this story at Q-notes but decide to do it here instead. The above story can be found here, here, here, here, and so many other gay blogs.

Yes maybe he should add the line, but want about the other racial that was in it. you the part of not working when able you don't eat, was that a anti-African American remark, about them being on SSI and Welfare???

No let just bitch and fucking whine about gay ooops queers can't get marriage and go some where..

Lets talk about our comments on this stroy

First those comments for Q-notes

Bill, saysid Hopefully, these bigoted musicians do not have children whose young minds are being poisoned by bigotry and hatred.,

JUST HOW MANY PEOPLE HOPE THAT WE DON'T HAVE KIDS AND EXPOSE THEN TO OUR LIFE STYLES,  SINCE SO MANY OF US HAVE VERY UNHEALTHY LIFESTYLES, ALL THE PARTIES AND DRUGS AND SEX PARTNERS IN ONE NITE,, THATS REALLY GOOD FOR THE KIDDIES.

Ted said, Bam redneck, ur done.

ISN'T CALLING SOME ONE A DAMN REDNECK JUST AS DEGRADING AS CALLING US A FUCKING FAGGOTS. SO WHEN YOU CALL SOMEONE A REDNECK  YOU ARE APPLYING THAT THEY ARE STUPID AS WELL

Corey Mondello said this ,
Is it just me, or do others notice than whenever “country folk” are in videos, town hall meetings or what have you, they seem to be the population that raises everyone else’s insurance premiums because they are do fat and unhealthy.
I don’t care what this man sings….he probably is a closet case, but it seems to me….these “Red” staters are the fattest in America and that should not go unnoticed.

WELL IF THIS IS HOW YOU FEEL THEN LETS HELP THE HEALTH CARE PROBLEM OUT, ALL FAGS WITH AIDS, HIV IF YOU GOT IT FROM HAVING  BAREBACK SEX , PLEASE GIVE YOUR INSURANCE UP RIGHT NOW, THIS COULD HELP WITH HEALTH CARE COST... SINCE IT COST OVER $2500/M TO CARE FOR A HIV+ PERSON IF NOT MORE.. COREY MUST HATE FAT PEOPLE, I GUESS WE CAN CALL HIM ANTI-FAT BIGOT.. SO PEOPLE WITH HIV+ ALSO RAISE EVERYONE ELSE'S INSURANCE PREMIUMS AS WELL.

Now from Pam's houseblend

I'm not surprised

I doesn't exactly amaze me that the woman was clapping at the lyrics. Judging from her attire she had just arrived from slopping the pigs and smelling of manure.

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by: stacheman @ Wed Oct 21, 2009 at 12:05:56 PM EDT

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 how nice to pick on one for what they ware... I GUESS THIS ASSHOLE HASN'T SEEN SOME OF OUR SO-CALLED PRIDE RALLIES,,,

We are slowly clipping away one of our most powerful rights in the land and once it gone we have no one to blame buT ourselves,, so please start kissing FREE SPEECH GOODBYE,,,

Cell Phone Sex Advice, get the NCFPC knickers in a knot

North Carolina Family Policy Council president Bill Brooks, who was interviewed for the New York Times article, said that he was concerned about the text line interfering with parental rights. “If I couldn’t control access to this information, I’d turn off the texting service,” Brooks told the New York Times. “When it comes to the Internet, parents are advised to put blockers on their computer and keep it in a central place in the home. But kids can have access to this on their cell phones when they’re away from parental influence—and it can’t be controlled.”

That is right the folks over at the NCFPC wants their kids to deaf, dumb and blind. These are the same folk who shit brick when sweet little sue comes home at the age of 16 and tell mommy and daddy that she will soon be a mommy as well.  These are the same jerks who tell their kids to get off once their kids come out. Nice parents rights, these are the folks who kids later in life become bombers and killers. 

Perez is nothing more than a Media Whore

How nice that Perez Media Whore Hilton, can call MS CA a bitch, when he really wanted to call her a cunt, and he feels its his right, However if she called him a fucking faggot, which he is, we the LGBT Community would be outraged

Faggot Perez should have never ask that question in the first Place. Perez no fucking brains took it upon his own sorry ass to bring the marriage issue in to a place where its wasn't appropriate at all.

Now Perez is nothing but a low life scum ass, he doesn't want her to be Ms America simply because she doesn't support GAYFUCKINGMARRIAGE, which is her right, we need stop force this fucking issue, because we are now provening Maggie of NOM points that we are forcing this down the throats of everyone in America.

Forum on UNC hate speech held by commission

Seven people who condemned comments proliferated at the tunnel, spoke at the forum saying that they were not in favor of creating a university policy to combat the situation. N.C.’s American Civil Liberties Union Legal Director Katie Parker said that the spray-painted statements were First Amendment free speech protected and would be a way to create censorship. She felt that those who rallied against the negative comments, thus creating a forum for dialogue, demonstrated a better approach to.

Welcome to the new small city of cities and state, your College. That's right now you have a whole new set of laws to go by, many of those laws will take some of your basic freedom away.

Lets there is the "Free Expression Tunnel" at N.C. State University, which allow any student to write what ever they wanted. Well,it would seem that was a lie. Well not exactly as long it not any hateful words. That right your free speech will now be limited to words that don't piss anyone off.

heard from its constituents who were mostly in support of adopting the policy in addition to the development of a University-wide requirement for diversity orientation for all first-time students.

Well will we stop letting them take our rights away. Now you can't say anything that might upset people. Please people get a fucking life and move on. Soon we will have no rights. we can't say this because someone might find it offensive.

Let see you can't tell a female co-worker that she looks great in her new dress, that is now sexual harassment. If you criticize the actions of a few of a race, or apply any stereotype phase, you are now a racist.

It seem that one care if we keep our free speech till its our (mine, yours) free speech under attack. Then we will stop passing new laws that effect our very freedoms that were giving to us by our founding fathers.

One day we will no longer have free speech or any other freedom what we have enjoyed.

SNT: Glaad this was a waste of money and time

Spanish Language Media: GLAAD Secures Spanish-Language Coverage of Proposed Chicago LGBT High School
GLAAD pitched and worked with producers to develop a segment about the proposed gay friendly high school in Chicago to the national news show Noticiero Azteca America. “Controversia por escuela gay” which featured an interview with a bisexual student and a lesbian mother aired on Azteca America on November 7. We also provided background information and a trained spokesperson for the local Telemundo news show En Contexto that is scheduled to air on November 25 at 10pm CST and will include a debate over the pros and cons of the proposed high school.

First off why should we as English speaking Americans have to provide the Latin/Spanish speak people with notices and papers in their language to communicate with them, if they are so hellbent getting to this country and want to live and work there then they should learn the damn language, if not then they need to go back where they came from, this also goes for the Chinese and Japanese as well. The last time I checked the national language of the US was and is English.

Ignorant Facebook Status was it Free Speech ?

Apparently this anti-Obama Facebook phenomenon is really getting out of control and, luckily, some ignorant crazies are being forced to pay the consequences. Meet Buck Burnette, a football player for the University of Texas and blatant racist. Shortly after the election, his status read: "all the hunters gather up, we have a #$%&er in the whitehouse." Classy guy, that Buck.

As you can imagine, coach Mack Brown kicked him off the team immediately. Buck then issued an apology that was obviously not written by him.

No matter how you might feel on the subject but he has the right to say that if he wants too. It would seem that Free speech no longer exist if its a message of hate, or racism. Everyone has the right to speak ones mind on any subject or matter.

It would seem that we are now force to give up our freedom of speech to protect other people feelings. This is wrong.

Freedom of speech is the freedom to speak freely without censorship or limitation. The synonymous term freedom of expression is sometimes used to denote not only freedom of verbal speech but any act of seeking, receiving and imparting information or ideas, regardless of the medium used. Freedom of speech and freedom of expression is closely related to, yet distinct from, the concept of freedom of thought or freedom of conscience. In practice, the right to freedom of speech is not absolute in any country and the right is commonly subject to limitations, such as on "hate speech". This is because exercising freedom of speech always takes place within a context of competing values.

The First Amendment was ratified on December 15, 1791. The Amendment states:

Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.

yet we have pass laws restricting free speech, just because it might hurt someone's feelings. So time I don't even know why we even have a Bill of rights, since most of these rights can be taken away with a stoke of a pen.