Thursday, February 28, 2013



Yes, they are returning to Greenville, after the meeting that was held a few weeks back which was a epic failure. No all Equality NC fault, the community has to been held at fault too.

then again with these short ass notices that Equality love to give no wonder only 8 –9 people shown..

like this meeting five days notice..

Who ever doing the Event set up at Equality NC need to a better job.. yes the Director of Organizing need to get  her self together and do her job better..

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Jeremy Hooper the Kept Boy, commented on me..

Jeremy who blogs at, had the following to say about me..


SickNTired is someone who has a weird vendetta against anyone who actually shows up and engages in this fight. This person spent his or her entire weekend on a hashtag for an LGBT Media Summit I attended just want only attacking anyone and everything. If you want to make the effort to locate this person's twitter account, you can see it for yourself. I will not link to it.

This person's odd obsessions and bizarre character assassinations (which have ranged from attacking people's financial situations, questioning Pam Spaulding's health, knocking my marriage, claiming we're all "kept" by "Gay Inc," etc.) have become running jokes of just about any LGBT conference. He or she never shows up to anything, he or she never makes an effort to actually understand where anyone is coming from, he or she never does anything resembling heavy lifting. Instead, this person attacks for sport, often in a very personal way. Some find it annoying while others find it enraging. I find it sad and unfortunate that someone would channel his or her passions in this way when he or she could actually be helping to change the deep problems he or she apparently sees within our movement.

My suggestion is to ignore it. The negative energy is not worth the time.

If he did a good search on me, like he does on everything NOM, he would have seen that I have attend and photography many rallies and posts here in North Carolina, I had supply Qnotes with some photos of these events. Also he might have found the Qnotes piece, which is a basic attack piece on me through my partner.

Then again I don’t’ except for a kept boy to do anything like work..

Jeremy born in the fall of 1979, graduated from a school in Tenn in 1997, he moved to New York in 2002, where I guess he meet his keeper. He starts his blog in 2005, then in 2009 married his keeper. Since he is a kept boy he had time to write a book in 2012. Also has the time to do in depth research on NOM..

Now just like I don’t know his daily routine, in turn he doesn’t know mine. so to write that I don’t do anything in my community concerning Gayright is pure conjecture.

Sunday, February 24, 2013

My Google Vs Bing test

I search for the following on both lgbtmedia13, and bing lost big time.

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google had the best related search items,, bing had items that didn't match the search,,, so Bing is big loser in my test.

Thursday, February 21, 2013

A Bunch of Gayinc’ers to meet in Philly this weekend.

yes Bill of the Bilerico Project has once again con the Haas Foundtion to flip the bill for this event, which is a vacation type thing for Bill, and a day at the spa.. 

These are some who might be there,, Many write for his Blog, which they are not paid, so in a way this event is like a pad holiday for them via Bill.

They will be on Twitter too at this has tag, #lgbtmedia13


  • David Badash (New Civil Rights Movement)
  • Matthew Bajko (Bay Area Reporter)
  • Matt Baume (Gay Marriage Watch)
  • Andrew Belonsky (Towleroad)
  • Trish Bendix (AfterEllen)
  • Sarah Blazucki (NLGJA board member)
  • Lester Braithwaite (Queerty/GayCities)
  • Bil Browning (Bilerico Project)
  • Sean Bugg (Metroweekly)
  • Kelli Busey (PlanetTransgender)
  • Faith Cheltanham (BiNetUSA)
  • Jen Christensen (NLGJA board president)

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Call out EqualityNC on twitter, you get block

Equality NC (equalitync) on Twitter_20130219_112244

to follow them all I need to do is not to sign in to twitter to see and follow them..

You go Girl. Finally someone stands up too GLAAD

Now she's speaking out about it:

Banks“There are such bigger problems… and then you've got organisations like GLAAD [Gay And Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation], which are f**king complete bulls**t.
“I mean let's look at it, it's gay and lesbian alliance against defamation, or whatever…. that's what it stands for, right? I mean would you agree that homosexuals, and the homosexual community, have bigger problems than the word faggot, you know what I mean?"

also, Banks pledges not to be torn down:

“Some people are Satanists, some people are Christians, some people are Jews, Buddhists, you know what I mean? Some people are still Nazis… there are some people who are still KKK members… Come on people, please. If you're trying to call me a homophobe, you're basically trying to imply that I’m insulting you for having sex with men. I have sex with men too – what the f**k?

“I have sex with men and women, do I have to take a picture of my licking a f**king pussy? What the f**k! It doesn't make any sense. It's so stupid. It's so stupid and it's so evil. And it's just like this stupid f**king media sh*t, you know what I mean? It's the media sh*t. And this is why I go about myself the way the way I go about myself, and I do whatever the f**k I want. If the media is going to build me up to tear me down, you motherf**kers are not going to tear me down.
“I just make these f**king raps, and I'm just gonna wear these outfits, and f**king live my life. I can't deal with you motherf**kers, I don't have time for this sh*t.”

More at The Music...

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Shocking News from Qnotes..

You know it has been said and paraphrase that Eastern NC is a waste of time and money for Qnotes to report about. Well Qnotes decided to give up some of their very precious time, money and web space for a article from the east.

How don’t go, finally we matter to Qnotes, cause if the said event wasn’t being hosted by Equality NC, I bet Qnotes would have kept up  the status quo, we don’t matter. It is also shocking that we matter to Equality NC since they didn’t do much in the East doing the Amendment 1 campaign. But they run here after two lesbians gets a letter condemning their relationship..

so here is the post on Qnotes

Equality NC kicks off town hall tour in New Bern

He got most of the info from Jen Jones of ENC via twitter and emails. which is ok.

I only hope that he gives Greenville the same time and treatment as he did to New Bern, but I’m not holding my breath at all.

The Greenville event can be found here, I hope this event is a success. I in Greenville the subject of the meeting is to address workplace non-discrimination and efforts in the city to protect LGBT public employees.

Sunday, February 10, 2013

The Charlotte LG Fund age discrimination at its worst.

The film, “Were The World Mine,” is an artistic and musical queer spin on William Shakespeare’s “A Midsummer Night’s Dream,” recounting the story of a a bullied and demoralized gay student at an all-boys school who uses a magical flower to turn many in his community gay, including a comely rugby player for himself.

After the film, a panel discussion of local LGBT youth will discuss their experiences in schools and in the community.

The event is made possible by a grant from The Charlotte Lesbian & Gay Fund. Admission is free for those under 25 and $6 for those 25 and over.

how nice, lets all the young boys in for free while charging the guys money to see the same movie. this remember me of those bar where women are allow in for free and the guys must pay to get in..

Yet GayInc would have you to believe our community is better then our straight counter-parts, Bullshit,

Friday, February 8, 2013

So Equality NC in Goldsboro, NC today, what were they doing???

According to a tweets Equality NC was in Goldsboro today.. One would have to wonder what were they doing, or seeing??

Talking about a lack of transparency. Where did doing backroom deals?

GayINC has done it again, School to lose all Clubs because GSA

the Lake County, Florida school board have proposed banning all extracurricular clubs in order to prevent students from forming a Gay-Straight Alliance.

School Board members Bill Mathias, Debbie Stivender and Chairwoman Kyleen Fischer spoke in favor of a rule that would ban extra-curricular clubs in secondary schools while fellow board members Tod Howard and Rosanne Brandeburg favored banning extra-curricular clubs only in middle schools. Fischer said the district should focus on education and that "social engineering" is not the job of the School Board. "It is not our job to socially mentor students, but to educate them," she said. Howard said he was worried about the clubs that would be lost under stricter rules. "I am very concerned that one club would push out the remainder of the clubs that are doing good things," he said.

The issue arose after a 14 year-old middle school student was denied a permit to form a GSA in response to anti-gay bullying. So goodbye chess club, drama club

Once again GayInc Fucks everyone..

Wednesday, February 6, 2013

I guess the Flu at Equality NC is almost gone

they are getting some work done,  check this out


Unless it was done by some one out of the office and who didn’t go to GA from CC13

They Drop a City, I guess that Flu is kicking their asses..

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Equality NC_Making Our Voices Count_Town Hall Tour_20130206_074938

I guess Fayetteville, gets fuck over this month.. Well I guess their still time to set that one up

I have been inform that by question those GayInc Org's I'm turning down communities. Really, we are not allow to question them, just blindly follow them, like may do with the Holy Bible..

Monday, February 4, 2013

Score one for ME, I actually got them to do something

I email the following to Equality NC folks, thru my main email address, which was my mistake but since Matt of Qnotes make the link to SNT and me its doesn’t matter anymore..

I see that no dates were set for January and the dates were moved to February.

It was post on FB via a Friend that you have set one up for the 11th in New Bern, yet their has been no notice or announcement of this meeting on your Facebook page nor your website.

I was wonder why you guys would want these meetings to be a failure..

waiting till the last minute to announce this meeting will only result in very low turn out.. Is that your goal.

Better yet is it because New Bern falls in Eastern NC where you and other groups have declare that we are not worthy of your time.

I guess this will be the status quo for the Greenville  meeting as well..


sent at 9 46 am

I receive a reply,

now on Facebook there is this.

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I would like to know why it took me getting bitchy for them to put the word out about his event.

I have notice this how they do things.. They did same thing back in the summer of 2012, First they didn’t want to hold a Rally about the Marriage amendment then decide to after someone else was planning one..

However you will love the reason why it took them so long to post this information on FB and their site (oops as of 11:25 webpage not updated).

Why did it take my email criticism to get this done???

Ok the reason why they couldn’t post the meeting info.

IT WAS BECAUSE OF THE FLU.. I shit you not.. and here I thought it was their mini vacation to GA for the Creating Charge bullshit.. Wait there is another reason the planning of HKonJ event..

Please HKonJ is plan by another group, and other group join in.. in this case ENC is walks with them holding their little banner..

here is the Kicker from Chris’s email

“We need your help, not your criticism.” spoken like a true GayIncer..

So how we are not allow to Criticize our Gay Org’s, this reminds me of the following,

if you want to see who is in charge, ask  yourself who are you not allowed to criticize.

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Culliver being force to work with the Trevor Project

Thanks to Gay Inc Culliver lost his Freedom of Speech

Culliver is scheduled to begin working with “The Trevor Project,” an organization that provides crisis and suicide intervention to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender youth, according to his public relations representative, Theodore Palmer.

“He’s so passionate about youth and people being comfortable with who they are and accepted by all,” Palmer said in a phone interview Saturday. “He’s excited to learn. The plan is with The Trevor Project, and their concerns are that he is genuine about his words.”

Palmer said Culliver will spend time volunteering at a crisis center in San Francisco.

“It’s just an opportunity for him to learn about his comments and educate himself about the LGBT co mmunity, and grow,” Palmer said. “It’s the first step in learning about his words.”

I bet he is being force to do this,, GayINC at work here..

This Bi-weekly issue of Qnotes


I just don’t under stand why a LGBT newspaper need to revisit the sexual past of the community, better yet even have a full blown sex issue. However Qnotes see a need where its not needed. Then again it about money and more exposure for a Newspaper that is hanging on. I’m willing to bet its on life-support..

This issue the folks at Qnotes wants us to revisit the 70’s were sex were not a life and death game. Where if you caught anything it could be cure by a few shots or a week or two worth of pills.

They even have a Poll asking “do you believe society will ever be able to again experience the same kind of sexual freedom that existed in the 1970’s.”

Really, if the truth is to be told its still happening, it just not happening at the piers, or the bath houses. Barebacking is still going on, gay men still are cruising the restroom and the parks. Gay men having sex where ever they can, some safe and other not safe at all.

Many of us know our gay past, do we really need it to be bought up at every turn and by newspaper editors just out to make a buck?

However Qnotes doesn’t fail to maintain it’s all about Charlotte.. With this headline title “Do Young adult matter to your Charlotte LGBTQ organization?” Well I guess now all of NC Gay Orgs are now in Charlotte only. It should have been “to your NC Org’s. Also, it seem all the LGBT training must also happen in Charlotte.

Yes for those who live in the Eastern Parts of NC, you don’t matter to Qnotes. yes, We are a waste of their time and money. (yes I’m paraphrasing a comment from Matt). However its not only Qnotes that believes this.. Equality NC does too, if they spent as much time in the East as they did in Raleigh, Durham, Greensboro, Charlotte and Ashville, the out come from Amendment One might have been different. Since those who supported the Amendment won every Eastern County but one.

GayInc will be the death of many of our rights. GayInc is slowly killing our rights to free speech, if you think they are not, then you are wrong. In Canada the song ‘money for nothing” was censored, yes cause it had the word Faggot in it. In the US anyone who doesn’t agree with GayInc immediately branded as a bigot or homophobe. Like recent a NFL Football player made a statement that there should be no gay Footballer player. This is his opinion which is entitled too. However GayInc doesn’t see this way.. 

I just love how Gayinc has to gay everything up, Like this head “Gayest. Inauguration Ever.” really, just how was it gay, please do tell. That right the President mention us and Stonewall and the right for us to marry. Just because he mention those items doesn’t make the Inauguration a Gay event.

Lets not forget how to GayInc if you are an Actor/ess and in the closet you must come out. Hell, GayInc have been try for years to out Tom Cruise, John T, and many others. Mostly Ed Koch, they are trying to out.

Remember that we are own worst enemy.. Also GayInc doesn’t like those who speak out against them.


Note: the image is being used under the fair use cause, copyright credit goes to Qnotes.

Children should't be subject to life long medical choices

Very interesting statement, which I'm sure the #transinc community will claim to be Transphobic.. in natural. There is nothing bias ...