Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Buncombe County Registrar giving Same Sex Couples False hope.

NCCouplesGay couples lined up this morning outside the office of the Buncombe County registrar, who is issuing but not signing marriage licenses today. Attorney General Roy Cooper is defending the state against the lawsuit brought by the ACLU, even though he personally supports marriage equality. Buncombe County is home to Asheville, arguably the most liberal city in North Carolina.

Can you said false hope…

Monday, October 14, 2013

The things you can read on Facebook

Recently I decided to check out Matt Comer Facebook page, for some strange reason.. I was shock to read his opinion and the comments from his followers about a 19 yo who has decided to run for public office here in NC.

Even though he is very young and a tea partier the chances of him winning this office (nc house) is very slim, if not impossible. But you have to admired him for trying.

Matt wrote the following, A 19-year-old and recent graduate is running for N.C. House in Surry County. He's conservative and a Tea Partier. He says he wants to "nullify Obamacare in North Carolina." His high school learning is still fresh in his mind, so it's obvious that he either willfully chooses to believe bullshit or just skipped out on all those classes about the Civil War. Nullification? Really? Dude, come join us in reality and the 21st century won't you?

It would seem Matt has an issue with his decision to make sure Obama Care never comes to NC. The young guy used the word nullify, which might not have the been the best choice of word for this action, but it does fit in a way.

Nullify, a verb “make legally null and void: invalidate. via Merriam Webster online Dictionary.

Now the comments are at best neutral,

one said he would rather see Matt hailing the initiative of this young man, then opposed to criticizing him for his views. Another commenter  said that he disagree with his views, but glad to see young people getting involved, even if they are from Surry County. Another basically claims the young man has been brain washed.

Yet another commenter thinks the young man is retarded, while another claims he is 50 shades of inbreed. One makes the claim that after high school the only choice was politics or a meth lab.

Now remember Matt is a LGBT Activist and political junkie, he doesn’t list his political party, but I’m sure he is a democrat. 

Now if this person was running on the LGBT ticket I’m sure Matt would be promoting and endorsing this person. But since he is a Tea partier Matt feels it open season to attack him.


Thursday, October 3, 2013

It’s would seem Gay marriage is more important then Employment Protection

From Joe My God

Illinois already includes gay people in its public accommodation laws, but that hasn't stopped the local Catholic stormtroopers from lying about what the pending marriage equality bill will mean for busineses. (Which is nothing, of course, since that law is long established and has nothing to do with same-sex marriage.)  Freep the fuck out of this.

I would rather have Employment Security before Marriage Equality..

Yes lets get married, then get fired from our jobs solely because we got married.

Saturday, September 28, 2013

Bryan Fisher as a point

Chris Sgro picks his first boycott campaign for ENC,

The new Exe Dir. of Equality NC is making a splash for his first public statement/boycott/fundraiser.. and its deals with pasta, mainly Barilla pasta..

See, in todays world if a Business doesn’t blindly support the LGBT community, or if their CEO, Owner make a statement that they only support Traditional married, Gayinc will sound the alarm to attack them.. and all the good little sheep will respond to the call.

However, ENC want you use your noodles to fight back and join ENC family, (with is stupid since you have to join them to get this email,) and they want you tag your pasta loving pics with this hast tag, #boycottbarilla. It would seem that is being common place.

Gayinc is going after businesses who don’t fully support this. When will this stop? Gayinc is causing more hate then they are trying to end.

Also they want you to donate $10.55, which they claim is the cost of a six pack of Barilla pastas.

copy of the email,


This week, Guido Barilla, chairman of the world's leading pasta manufacturer, prompted calls for a consumer boycott after telling Italian radio his company would never use a gay family in its advertising. As Barilla put it, "I would never do (a commercial) with a homosexual family...Ours is a classic family where the woman plays a fundamental role."

Well, as a gay Italian American, I'm ready to dish out a lesson in family values.

Let's use our noodles to fight back - join the Equality NC family on Facebook and Twitter as we show Guido that LGBT families enjoy eating as equals, by tagging your family's pasta-loving pics with the hashtag #boycottbarilla.

And while you're at it, help fight discrimination here at home:
Donate $10.55 today (the cost of a six-pack of Barilla) - to Equality NC's work to protect North Carolina's LGBT families from discrimination.

Don't let this opportunity to send a strong message to Barilla "pasta you by!" (sorry.)


Chris Sgro
Executive Director
Equality NC

P.S. Want to make an even bigger impact? Make your $10.55 donation a recurring, monthly investment and help sustain our important pro-equality work throughout the year.


read the comments on Towleroad, and you can see how our so called leaders who make up Gayinc has brain wash folks. Where you can’t have a personally opinion about Gay Rights, well you can, but you can’t speak them.

Monday, August 19, 2013

Wow ENC: to hold a Community Chat in Rocky Mount,,

yes this is true, I search theirs Twitter feed, no tweet about this meeting, unless it was done under the PFlag Tweet feed.. I also check their FB feed, nothing about this chat.. A lot of post about their new fucking tee shirts and stickers.. See Eastern NC isn’t that important to ENC, unless they need money…


Aug 20, 2013 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM

Join Equality North Carolina for our Rocky Mount Community Chat to discuss the recent Supreme Court rulings, challenging Amendment One, and what this means in your community.
Special thanks to Rocky Mount PFLAG for hosting this conversation.

Unitarian Universalist Fellowship
516 North Church Street
Rocky Mount, NC

Saturday, August 17, 2013

It’s that time of year once again, Proof that only Charlotte Matters..



Non-profits, community leaders and more. Your vote can go to any organization, person, business or other entity in Charlotte and the surrounding metro area.


Nightlife & Entertainment

Bars, clubs, drag performers and DJs! Who is the best in Charlotte's nightlife? Let us know!



Stores, restaurants and more. Who's the best in Charlotte business?

Please Note: it all about Charlotte. yes Charlotte only need to apply..

For a LGBT newspaper who claim to represent the Carolina’s  they seem to only care what the LGBT community of Charlotte thinks.

The last time I check there were LGBT communities in Greensboro, Ashville, Durham, Raleigh, and also in Greensville.

Thursday, June 27, 2013

WITN Coverage of the Greenville NC Doma Rally

Yet Qnotes couldnt be bother to check it out. let see WCTI12 had coverage of the rally. so did the Daily Reflector, click here,

The only Doma Protest in NC was in Charlotte, according to Qnotes


CHARLOTTE, N.C. — About 30 community members gathered on Wednesday evening in Uptown Charlotte to celebrate yesterday’s landmark U.S. Supreme Court rulings on gay marriage.

“We’re here today to say that anything is possible in this country and that we have to fight for every single right we have,” organizer Lacey Williams said during the rally.

As usual Qnotes only reports about event in Charlotte while giving any other cities a food note in the story,,

Other celebrations were held elsewhere across Charlotte and the Carolinas. Supporters of the Human Rights Campaign, the nation’s largest LGBT civil rights organization, gathered for drinks at a celebratory reception at Cathode Azure, a gay bar in South End. In Columbia, SC Equality held a march to the South Carolina State House. In Raleigh, Equality North Carolina convened supporters for an event at Pullen Memorial Baptist Church.

As usual they leave out Greenville who had there rally which was also on TV. It would seem that Qnotes just don’t care about the rest of NC.. Only Charlotte.. I guess it would have been to hard to search the web for events in other part of NC, to find the list them too..

Important Update to Adult Content Policy on Blogger

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Please be advised that on June 30th 2013, we will be updating our Content Policy to strictly prohibit the monetization of Adult content on Blogger. After June 30th 2013, we will be enforcing this policy and will remove blogs which are adult in nature and are displaying advertisements to adult websites.

If your adult blog currently has advertisements which are adult in nature, you should remove them as soon as possible as to avoid any potential Terms of Service violation and/or content removals.

The Blogger Team

So Blogger doing away with Adult Blogs.. I guess its time to boycott Blogger and Google..

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Gayinc is piss, cause the IFI is calling for Public Morals laws to be enforced during Pride.

The Illinois Family Institute, and the former home of Porno Pete, is calling on its followers to contact the Chicago police and demand that the above list of "public morals codes" be enforced at this weekend's Chicago Pride events. Which should be enforced, we can have Pride with our private parts showing..

IFIlistThough open containers with alcoholic beverages are illegal during the Gay Pride Parade, missing in official police and parade rule announcements, however, are warnings against violating the Chicago Public Morals Laws, which have been on the books for years and rarely, if ever, enforced in the Boystown gay district throughout the year.
The month of June was designated as LGBT “Pride Month” by proclamation from Mayor Rahm Emanuel featuring dozens of social, cultural, athletic and political events scheduled by various sponsoring groups, culminating with the 44th annual Chicago Gay Pride Parade on June 30th at noon. The grand marshal for the parade is former NFL player Wade Davis. Parade organizers claim to attract hundreds of thousands of onlookers each year, including young children.
Use IFI’s advocacy system to contact Chicago Police Superintendent Garry McCarthy and 19th District Commander Elias Voulgaris and respectfully urge them to enforce Chicago Public Morals Laws. No one person, group or organization should be above laws that protect citizens from public indecency and lewd behavior.

They the IFI, does have a point, our so called Pride does resemble a porno.. and most of these laws so be apply. Pride days show us a sluts and sexual freaks..

Monday, June 17, 2013

Extra Extra Read all about, Pam is shutting Down Pam’s House Blend

yes its true, She shutting down her very popular blog..


My decision to close the blog is just as reality-based as its content has been. If I cannot produce material at the frequency or with the same level of quality, enthusiasm and effectiveness, it’s really time to close the doors to this coffeehouse — and work to ensure it continues to have a life as an archive, a snapshot in our digital political history. Pamshouseblend.com will redirect to archives.

I must confess I will be sorry to see it go. True, sad but yes…

Thursday, May 30, 2013

Breaking News: Calvin Klein got his Str8 boytoy back,

kleinPage Six writes:

Calvin Klein is reconciling with his troubled much-younger boyfriend Nick Gruber, and recently whisked him away on a romantic Mexico break, sources exclusively tell Page Six. Blond-haired, blue-eyed, former erotic model Gruber, 23, and Klein split in January 2012 after two years, following Gruber’s infamous incident punching a political intern and being arrested for cocaine possession after a night of partying at his Greenwich Street apartment. Gruber then headed to a rehab facility in Arizona, with rumors that the 70-year-old fashion mogul was footing the bill and had flown him there via private jet. After the breakup, penniless Gruber announced he was working on a tell-all titled “Obsession: My Life With Calvin Klein,” and told Page Six Magazine he was the first man Klein ever fell for. He also claimed Klein once made him take a lie-detector test after suspecting he’d cheated. Gruber announced he was also working on a reality show about his relationship with Klein, having moved to LA and started dating John Luciano. But by February this year, Gruber and Luciano broke up, and Gruber had a change of heart and pulled the plug on his book. A source now tells us, “Calvin feels very protective over him. Despite all that has happened, and everything he’s done, he still loves Nick.” We’re told Klein flew Gruber to Mexico and the two met up at an exclusive resort there. The source added, “Calvin wants to keep it low-key.”

More HERE.

I have to wonder how much it will cost him this time????

Another GayInc Petition over a Cure App.. What ever happen to freedom of choice???

gaycureappVia All Out:

Gay 'cures'? There shouldn't be an app for that. But, there's a new one called "Setting Captives Free," available in both the Apple iTunes and Google Play stores, meant to teach you how to stop being gay. It's a 60-day course that tells gay people they are not "born this way" and offers to help them find "freedom from the bondage of homosexuality." These so-called treatments can cause terrible harm to lesbian, gay, bi, and trans people, or anyone forced to try to change who they are or who they love. Apple and Google have policies against these kinds of apps but so far this one has escaped their notice. Sign now to tell them to drop this and all other gay 'cure' apps!

FRC Applauds ExxonMobil, and so do I

"While other businesses drift away from their principles or capitulate under pressure, Exxon is putting its stock in something other than political correctness.  For the 14th straight year, shareholders voted to maintain their reputation as a company that upholds the commonsense principle that managers should be able to determine what conduct contributes to and what conduct detracts from the effective performance of an employee's duties. The four to one margin against the resolution is a strong indication that the homosexual community's agenda is not resonating beyond the most liberal states.  Exxon is setting a good example for other businesses who think promoting extreme political views is the only away to avoid the strong arm tactics of far left special interests." - Hate group leader Tony Perkins, writing for the blog of the Family Research Council.

Gay’s looking for Trouble with bakeries, Yet they are not Bullying them…

Oregon's Williamette Week called the two local bakeries that have made national news for refusing to make gay wedding cakes.  Unshockingly, the businesses had no problem creating deliciousness for non-gay sinners.

Last week five WW reporters called these two bakeries anonymously to get price quotes for other occasions frowned upon by some Christians. Surprisingly, the people who answered the phone at each bakery were quite willing to provide baked goods for celebrations of divorces, unmarried parents, stem-cell research, non-kosher barbecues and pagan solstice parties. We later contacted both bakeries to ask about these inconsistencies. Regentin declined to comment beyond asking whether she had been taped (she had not). Sweet Cakes owners Melissa and Aaron Klein were upset that we “would even try to entrap a business” and contacted conservative talk-show host Lars Larson.

This is Gay Inc at work, via other people so they can keep their hands clean, or the keep them lubed up for action.. They targeting business, so they can sue and get 15 min worth of headlines..

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Jeremy Hooper has rung the bell for GayInc to go after this person.

Why you ask, simply cause he doesn’t support Gay Marriage.. So Jeremy has put the call out for all GayInc’ers to harass this man..

Which mean Glaad will reach out to him, have a chat, then when he would bow down to them, they will go after him

Yet they Claim they are not the Bullies, which is complete other bullshit..



Saturday, May 25, 2013

In the you Gotta be Fucking joking Dept.

This guy thinks that Netroots won’t be the same without Jeremy Hooper..  Whom isn’t going for some strange reason.

Petition_Jeremy Hooper_Attend Netroots Nation in San Jose in June 2013_Change.org_2013-05-24

Friday, May 24, 2013

Another Equality NC failure,

One day notice for this event, yet they wonder why the turn out is low, on that of that this weekend is a holiday weekend.

Equality NC & The Ally Coalition Photo Shoot!_2013-05-24

this event was created on facebook at 1;14PM today..

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

The Queen was just to busy to have tea with dying child.

From Gawker.comk-bigpic

Oliver Burton's dying wish was to visit Buckingham Palace and have afternoon tea with the Queen.

Unfortunately, Her Royal Highness was unable to fit the 10-year-old into her busy schedule of waving at crowds from afar — so understudy Dame Helen Mirren stepped in to take her place.

Oliver, who has Down's syndrome, has been battling various forms of cancer almost his entire life, and was recently diagnosed with terminal spine and bone marrow cancer.

But last week, for a brief wondrous afternoon, his troubles took a backseat to a meeting with the One True Queen.

Mirren brought Oliver and his family to Gielgud Theatre to see her play the Queen in Peter Morgan's The Audience.

So why couldn’t the Queen of England spare an hour out of her busy schedule to have a tea with this Child.

That is easy, cause the old crabby bitch is to busy setting in her fucking throne side bed with it her designer Egyptian cotton sheets. Afraid of the sun light hitting her old decrepit skin.

Now we all know if the Princess Dianna would have made time. but the old bat couldn’t Just fucking sick..

Thursday, May 16, 2013

What happens when a rant, becomes a short story,

This is a great piece, see quote than go read the piece.

In the Reign of the Gay Magical Elves

By Bret Easton Ellis

The rush to embrace and console every gay man who comes out is infantilizing and condescending—but it's a script written and promoted by GLAAD and reinforced by a sanctimonious establishment of gay men that rewards those who play by the rules—and punishes those who don't. Novelist Bret Easton Ellis on why he refuses to take his bitch-slapping lying down.

He socks it to Glaad,, its about time.. too

Sunday, May 12, 2013

Garden party or a Underwear party you Decide.. A Q-note Ad piece.

The week of Qnotes is about a Garden party, however that is in title only, cause it really a underwear party.

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see this is little Mattie's way of tiding a article and a Ad together.. the online version of this piece show’s maker and price of those undies and where to buy them

Tuesday, May 7, 2013

It’s Still all about Charlotte for Qnotes

Yes they having a Home and Garden issue, but is only for those in Charlotte, sorry rest of NC,,

QNotes is currently planning our home and garden issue! We want YOU and your beautiful home to be featured! Interested? Learn more and contact:

We will profile several LGBT homeowners in Charlotte and their homes and gardens, focusing on the homeowners' interior decorating, remodeling/restoration (if any) and landscape design, as well as the homeowners' ideas about practicing good home decor and organizing. We would need about 20-40 minutes to take photographs of the homeowners' in their home and/or gardens and to speak with them. We would like to schedule this sometime between May 8-May 10 and May 13-17. Afternoons and evenings are preferred. The homes would be featured in our May 24 print edition and online. If you have any questions or concerns, please contact Matt Comer, editor, at editor@goqnotes.com. Thank you.

Saturday, May 4, 2013

You got to be fucking joking

Is it a pool party or a sex party,

Yes Campus Pride is having a Pool party, but you must first give up $75 bucks to start with. Don’t fear, this party is at a private resident where I’m it will be clothing optional after some time..

also Sorry Jack a successful stint on Project Runway would be if you actually finish or voted off, not because you left voluntary.

Also, so far only men reply to the invite on Facebook, well, one woman. Also Matt of Qnotes said he would be there, I’m sure on Qnotes dime, to get an interview

Campus Pride Summer Pool Party Featuring Jack Mackenroth_2013-05-04

A bit late, don’t you think

Received this in my email to night, I think this should have been sent early in the day.
Gmail - Out! Raleigh IS HERE!_2013-05-04

Thursday, April 25, 2013

GayInc is piss at the State Dept, Over a Damn Visa for a Cuban LGBT Activist.

Cuban LGBT rights activist Mariela Castro, the niece of Fidel and daughter of president Raul Castro, has been denied a visa to attend a gay rights forum in Philadelphia.

Equality Forum Executive Director Malcolm Lazin said in a press release that Mariela Castro, executive director of the Cuban National Center for Sex Education (CENESEX,) several months ago accepted an invitation to speak on a panel at the University of the Arts on May 4. She was also scheduled to accept an award at the group’s annual dinner that will take place later that same day at the National Museum of American Jewish History.
Lazin said the State Department issued a visa to Castro that allowed her to attend meetings at the United Nations in New York City. He said the U.S. government refused to allow her to travel to Philadelphia to attend Equality Forum that will highlight Cuba. Lazin told the Washington Blade on Thursday the Cuban government attached Equality Forum’s invitation to its application for a visa that would have allowed her to attend the event.

Yes you read correctly and Gay INc is Pissed..

Disqus Id’er Dagoril had this to say

The State Department should explain itself. The "decline to comment" makes the US look bad.

Are they being petty to her because she's Cuban and not a refugee? Being petty to her because she is related to Castro? Being petty and homophobic generally? Being petty because of sex education that is not just "abstinence only"?

this commenter had this to say Markus Hayden Sutherland ,

Yet Chinese officials and officials from other totalitarian communist countries are allowed to come and go at will and even get red (pardon the pun) carpet treatment. And they're not here to promote any form of human rights.

other commenters are blaming the Cuba in Florida for this..

Yea GayINC get the fuck over it, and move on..

Wednesday, April 24, 2013

Breaking News: all NYC Sluts are Pissed, NO Fleet Week

Fleet Week has officially been canceled for New York City.

The United States Navy says it will not send any ships next month and no additional sailors or Marines will head to the city for the annual Fleet Week celebration. Cuts to the defense budget under the sequester are being blamed. But a spokesperson says any Navy, Marine Corps and Coast Guard members who happen to be in the city will be allowed to take part in any local events that still take place. City officials say Fleet Week was expected to generate about $20 million. In a statement, the city said, "We understand the Navy’s budgetary limitations and hope that the Fleet Week tradition can continue in 2014."

What will they ever do,, no large mass of in coming peters to service..

Monday, April 22, 2013

NY Street Sluts upset, there will be no Folsom St slutfest this year

The organizers of Folsom Street East announced this afternoon that this year's event has been canceled.

It is with sadness that the Producers and Board of Directors of Folsom Street East have to announce that the 17th annual Folsom Street East Street Festival this June is going to be cancelled. Though we continue to receive support for this community-building and fundraising event from Community Board 4 and our neighbors on the block (including our producing partner The Eagle NYC), the ever-growing construction on the north side of 28th street has made it impossible for us to successfully and safely hold our annual street festival. Thank you for the years of support from our attendees, sponsors, partners, exhibitors, vendors, performers and volunteers; we are sad that we will not be able to celebrate Pride with you at our fetish-friendly event this year.

What will these sluts do now,,

Sunday, April 21, 2013

Andrew Garfield Backs Gay Marriage

Spain Film Spiderman

Actor Andrew Garfield, who starred in last year's "The Amazing Spider-Man," tells The Times of London he has no qualms about backing same-sex couples' right to tie the knot.

"Of course I’m in favor of marriage equality. Same-sex couples should have the same rights as anybody else,” Garfield told the publication. “There is no argument against equality."

No shit, because he knows if he comes out against it, his career would be over, this is GayINC at work..

NC Religious Leaders and NC NAACP To Issue Moral Call to Action


21 April 2013

For More Information:        Rev. Dr. William J. Barber, President, 919-394-8137

      Mrs. Amina J. Turner, Executive Director, 919-682-4700

For Media Assistance:        Rob Stephens, Field Secretary, 336-577-9335

"What does the Lord require of you?  Do justice, love mercy and walk humbly with God."-Micah 6:8

"Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me."-Matthew 25:40

We are at a Moral Crossroads. Join us as we call our people to prayer.  Join us to call the General Assembly to reject the Moral Low Ground.  Join us to discuss the Moral High Ground of Nonviolent Protest and Peaceful Assembly to Reject the Old South.


Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Equality NC Executive Director is stepping down..

stuartcampbell-199x300Campbell only worked for the Group about a year and half, now he is stepping down. I really have to wonder why.. Could it be lack of results, lack of community involvement? Who really knows?

So will Alex Miller be returning to fill in while the Equality broad seek a replacement for Campbell? Yes why not, just what we need a str8 person leading NC’s only national LGBT Group.

Here is the press release from EqualityNC,


RALEIGH, N.C., APRIL 15, 2011– Equality NC and its Board of Directors announced today that Stuart Campbell, the organization’s executive director since 2011, will be leaving the organization sometime in early summer. Campbell led the state’s premier lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) advocacy organization during its high-profile 2011-2012 campaign against Amendment One, North Carolina’s constitutional ban on marriage equality.

“I leave Equality NC with an incredible sense of pride in the movement we have built during what could be considered the most pivotal two years in North Carolina’s LGBT rights movement.” said Campbell. “As positive momentum in favor of LGBT issues continues to build across the nation, region, and state, I am confident in the future of this organization, and remain grateful for the tireless efforts of our board, staff, and supporters to never stop fighting for Equality.”

During Campbell’s tenure with Equality NC, the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender (LGBT) advocacy organization has effectively lobbied the North Carolina General Assembly, executive branch, local governments, and electorate on issues like marriage equality, employment discrimination, adoption, domestic partnership, HIV/AIDS, and more.

In the process, Equality NC secured introduction of bills protecting LGBT workers, strengthened the state’s HIV/AIDS prevention and care programs by helping defend funding for critical needs; supported the elections of a growing number of LGBT legislative candidates, including current representative, Marcus Brandon; and built a coalition of partners and community leaders who tirelessly advocate on the behalf of LGBT North Carolinians.

“Over the past two years, our fight to defeat Amendment One galvanized a state full of new and seasoned LGBT leaders and advocates, and, despite Amendment One’s passage, I truly believe we can sustain this positive momentum in future efforts to secure LGBT rights, benefits and protections.” said Campbell.

Under Campbell’s leadership, Equality NC also experienced significant growth. The statewide LGBT organization now boasts over 100,000 supporters, 50,000 online activists, including thousands of donors, hundreds of volunteers, 23 active board members, and a team of six employees. Because of these successes, Equality NC has earned a national reputation as one of the strongest and most well-respected statewide LGBT advocacy groups in the country.

“I will miss working at Equality NC, but moving forward I know the organization has never been in better hands. I will be proud to be one of the thousands of people across this state and this nation who will never stop fighting for Equality in North Carolina,” said Campbell.

Responding to Campbell’s announcement, Elaine Martin, Equality NC Board Chair said, “I am deeply sorry to see Stuart leave. Not only has he had a very positive impact on the organization, but under his leadership we’ve experienced exceptional growth and had milestones in the LGBT movement I never would have thought possible.”

Martin reported that she and Equality NC Foundation Board Chair Ken Wittenauer have already started the process of creating a search committee to oversee the recruitment and selection of the next executive director at Equality NC.

“Today, we focus on acknowledging and celebrating Stuart’s accomplishments,” said Martin. “Speaking for our board of directors, Equality NC is deeply grateful for his work and we wish him the absolute best in his future endeavors.”

Equality NC is a statewide organization working to secure equal rights and justice for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender North Carolinians.


At this point and time it would wise for them to appoint Jen Jones or one others who have been for so long. Yet the board will seek another person out of state.. Who just might not be up to task of running EqualityNC..

Sunday, April 14, 2013

There more to the Story…


Well if he acted like a civilized person this might have not happen,, Remember there is three sides to every story, his side, their side and the truth, and also the Gayinc don’t like the truth if its not on their side..

Ellen came out today 16yrs ago, Big Deal who cares

ellen16 years ago today Ellen came out of the closet!
(Photo by Jeff Vespa/WireImage/Getty Images)

So what, do we really need to know this shit, no.

We need to stop threating these people like gods.. they are no better than anyone else..

Thursday, April 4, 2013

The HRC Bully has Been name,

So just who was the this female (dyke bitch) who bully a Trans-gender person over a flag at the SCOTUS rally last week,

Her name is Karin Quimby, just because she is a white bitch, the LGb community will give her a free pass on her bullying of a Trans-person.

From the “we own the LGBT movement” HRC,

Karin Quimby joined the Human Rights Campaign in February 2010 as Regional Field Director. She manages the field and political activities in the Southern region of the United States, developing field organizing plans and implementing strategies to elect fair-minded candidates and to pass pro-equality federal, state and local laws. Karin comes to HRC with a strong background in both policy and politics. Prior to joining HRC, Karin was a district representative for a congresswoman and a field director for a congressional campaign. She managed a No on Proposition 8 field office in California and has significant experience in faith-based organizing and in building durable coalitions.
In addition, Karin has served as a board member for the Ventura County Rainbow Alliance, the One National Gay & Lesbian Archives, and the West Hollywood Lesbian and Gay Advisory Board. She also co-founded and co-directed the Environmental Coalition of Faith Communities, Santa Barbara. She has a PhD in English from the University of Southern California and, prior to turning to work in politics full time, taught film, literature and LGBT studies at the university level.
You may contact Karin by calling (202) 216-1584 or by email at karin.quimby@hrc.org. wait she a Linked In profile too.

Her Facebook, Her twitter, she doesn’t tweet much her last tweet was on Jun 27, 2012

She has a past of bullying other Gay and Lesbians..

Just another self entitled dyke who thinks her shit don’t stink..

News from The Hill: Water down gun control bill

Groups worry Schumer, Manchin watering down gun-control bill
By Alexander Bolton

Gun-control groups say Sens. Charles Schumer (N.Y.) and Joe Manchin (W.Va.) are watering down a bill that expands background checks on gun purchases.

The groups say the two Democratic senators are going too far in a bid to win Republican support for gun-control legislation expected to hit the Senate floor next week.

Read the story here.

North Carolina NAACP Statement on Repeal of the Racial Justice Act


April 4, 2013

For More Information:           Rev. Dr. William J. Barber, II, President, 919-394-8137

                                               Mrs. Amina J. Turner, Executive Director, 919-682-4700

For Media Assistance:            Rob Stephens, Field Secretary, 336-577-9335

Download PDF of Statement

NC Senate Votes to Restart Racially Biased Death Penalty

            Forty-five years ago today, the world lost one of its greatest prophetic leaders of the modern age. On April 4, 1968, Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was shot down on the balcony of the Lorraine Motel in Memphis, in the middle of his most ambitious vision to date: the Poor People's Campaign. Two years ago, on the 43rd anniversary of Dr. King's brutal murder, the NC General Assembly chose to "honor" his legacy by introducing a bill that gutted the Racial Justice Act of its strongest provisions that attempted to rid racial bias from the application of capital punishment in NC.

            This General Assembly seems to have a disposition to introducing its most radical and blatantly racist legislation around Dr. King's last day on earth. The NC Senate's decision to pass an extreme piece of legislation yesterday is disturbing. They want to simultaneously cut current protections against discrimination under RJA while speeding up and making it easier to kill people. 

Qnotes Reader Survey

Which had more questions about Charlotte and its paper name,

see screen shot below,

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Really, Now Blogs are Publications,, I guess they threw them in to make the difference after all the Charlotte Publications on this list, Towleroad, Pam’s House, Queerty, LGBTQnation all blogs/news site, but no way are they PUBLICATIONS..

Thursday, March 28, 2013

HRC shows their true Colors

From Get off my Runway,

“The Human Rights Campaign asked us to take down our trans* flag because ‘marriage equality is not a transgender issue.’
They said this to one of our activists as well as a transgender person who held the flag. We stood our ground, and flew our flag proudly.
That flag flew behind the podium ALL day today, keep an eye for it on the news.”

This apparently happened twice. Well done, HRC. Well done. But I’m not allowed to be critical of your campaign. Get the fuck out of here.

HRC once again whats the T out of our movement.. Chad is like Joe only in it for the pay Check

,p>HRC is also facing criticism from United We Dream’s Queer Undocumented Immigrant Project. In a video posted to YouTube today, QUIP leader Jerssay Arredondo claims his speech at an HRC-organized event at the Supreme Court was revised by the national LGBT group.

HRC’s full statement below: “Tuesday and Wednesday were historic days for our community, as thousands of LGBT people gathered in front of the Supreme Court and in every state across the country to demonstrate their support for marriage equality. HRC was proud to play a role in these events as a member of the United for Marriage coalition, the group which organized the gathering at the Supreme Court. Marriage equality is an issue that fundamentally impacts hundreds of thousands of LGBT people and families across our nation and is greater than any one organization.

“It was agreed that featuring American flags at our program was the best way to illustrate this unifying issue which is why when managing the area behind the podium, several people were asked to move who were carrying organizational banners, pride flags or any other flag that was not an American flag. Several people refused and they were allowed to stay. The coalition welcomed the variety of signs and flags that were throughout the plaza that demonstrated the wonderful diversity of our community.

“It is a not true to suggest that any person or organization was told their flag was less important than another – this did not occur and no HRC staff member would ever tolerate such behavior. To be clear, it is the position of the Human Rights Campaign that marriage is an issue that affects everyone in the LGBT community.

“The events at the Court featured lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender speakers as well as LGBT families, religious leaders, Republicans, military spouses and civil rights activists. This has been a historic week and truly demonstrated how all of us – lesbian, gay, bisexual and straight, transgender and cisgender – can unite as one voice to advocate for our constitutional rights.”

Once again HRC Thinks they own our movement..


NC LGBT’s kissing Hagan ass how..

Hagan only recently decided to back SSM, and the local NC LGBT Community goes ape shit for her,

On Wednesday, Hagan announced she fully supported same-sex marriage rights.

“I know there are strong feelings on both sides, and I have a great deal of respect for their opinions,” Hagan told Raleigh’s News & Observer. “But after much thought and prayer on my part this is where I am today.

NEWS Flash, she only come out after being Slam by the Huff Post for not supporting SSM. Like any ass kissing Politician she had to turn very bad PR into Good PR..

The Huffington Post home page, as of this writing, has a blistering top story slamming the remaining ten Senate Democrats who refuse to back gay marriage.  You can see a screen capture of HuffPo’s home page below.


now since Hagan has officially comes out for SSM, the local members of the LGBT Democrats of NC are raising money for her. Yes these “push overs” set a $2,500. goal, but raise over $2,000 for her campaign..

As LGBT Americans, we need people to come together and support the candidates that support our values. Sen. Hagan's courageous support of marriage equality will make her an even bigger target for the Republicans. As she's supported us, we need to support her! This gay's for Kay and I hope you are too! Take this opportunity and donate today.

Even if, they only decided to support us after some very bad press, and after Two historic court Case in Washington DC were heard, over Prop 8 and DOMA..

it will never change LGBT community loves to be used for any thing these days.

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

You got to be F-ing joking

Really, seriously, after you make it known that I not good enough to comment, or share anything till I apology to many gayinc’ers for my opinions, which I have the right too.. Now you want my help, want me to share my photos with you guys..   get a clue

Qnotes to Eastern NC F-U, you just don’t matter

Before March 25th did anyone read in Qnotes that Wilson Cruz would be at ECU in Greenville?? I bet not, after 25th you might have.

They claim they didn’t know he was coming to ECU, and that they can’t be everywhere all the time..

But you can bet your last dollar that if Wilson Cruz was coming to Charlotte they would have been all over it, like ticks on a hound dog..

there more,

please Qnotes (yes I’m paraphrasing)said that the Eastern NC  was  waste of time any money. Since many location in east no longer gets their print issues, while they can be found on almost every street in Charlotte and Adult bookstores in Charlotte, Durham, and Raleigh.. and most of the gay bars all west of interstate 95.. (Fay, and Wilm isn’t really about of Eastern NC, they are more southern then east)

Friday, March 22, 2013

Glaad’s Rich Ferraro is having a major hissy fit..

GLAAD to Fox News_If you want to attend our events, stop attacking LGBT people – LGBTQ Nation_2013-03-22Glaad is right out pissed that two, not one but two of their employees had the nerve to buy and attend their media Award Gala in NY. Yes their Communications President Rich Ferraro, has his undies in so many knots that he can’t piss right.. however it seen there is an email where a Glaad Executive encouraged these two ladies to attend the event..

In a statement to Equality Matters, which is run by Media Matters Action Network, GLAAD’s vice president of communications Rich Ferraro used Colby and Guilfoyle’s attendance to condemn Fox News:

If Kimberly and Jamie expect to attend future GLAAD events, they will first need to sit down with us to discuss Fox News’ embarrassing, biased and misinformed coverage of LGBT issues. The invitation is open. Fox News’s track record on LGBT issues is abysmal, and it makes no sense to me why any LGBT people or allies would want to be a part of that.

TVNewser has obtained an email from GLAAD director of creative development Marc Honaker urging a current FNC staffer to “ask [Roger] Ailes or Suzanne [Scott] to buy a table for FNC.”

see email


so a Glaad person invites them and their Pres. of Com gets his panties all wet because they attend the event..

Its simple really Fox News won’t kiss Glaad’s self entitled ass..

My two cent to Glaad, is the fucking grow up and stop their bullying of people and business..

love this quote,

So let me get this straight. Glaad holds an event to encourge people to be inclusive and then a spokesperson for GLAAD castigates two women who were in attendance threatening that if they want to attend future GLAAD events they need to jump through some hoops because of who their employer is. Seems to me that Rich Ferraro is confused on the concept of inclusion. Obviously he has no idea how to be gracious. He was also barking up the wrong tree. I will tell you that as the First Lady of San Francisco Kimberly Guilfoyle was totally committed to the Gay community.

Dan Choi Back in Court, what a douchebag

Dan Choi trial to resume March 28: "The trial, which began in August 2011, has been on hold for more than a year over procedural disputes. The prosecutor initiated a highly unusual procedure known as a Writ of Mandamus that successfully overturned a ruling by the judge allowing Choi’s attorneys to argue that Choi was targeted for 'selective' and 'vindictive' prosecution."

Folks without a Life,

A line has already begun forming at the Supreme Court to hear arguments on Proposition 8 and DOMA which are next week on Tuesday and Wednesday. The line apparently began forming yesterday.


(image patrick terpstra twitter)

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Gayinc pushes for more cancelations

I understand that her mouth got her in trouble, but now Gayinc is bullying Venues to Cancel Michelle Shocked’s Concerts,

On Sunday, folk singer and onetime Lilith Fair regular Michelle Shocked stunned a San Francisco audience with a vicious anti-gay tirade. (Source: http://is.gd/O2IEGF) Shocked told the crowd that she lived in fear of same-sex marriage and even co-opted the rhetoric of the Westboro Baptist Church, an anti-gay hate group, by declaring that "God hates fags."

see below,

Equality-Minded Performance Spaces: Cancel Upcoming Michelle Shocked Concerts After Vile Anti-Gay Tirade

    1. Petition by

      John Becker

      Burlington, VT

Phyllis Stein, Manager, Michelle Shocked
Phillip Stein, U.S. Booking Agent
Andy Cooper, Tom Tom Music, UK/Europe Booking Agent
Hugo Mendez, Street Team, Tour Marketing/Management
Burg Herzberg Festival, Breitenbach am Herzberg, Germany
Klinkers Festival, Brugge, Belgium
Kings Place Folk Union, London, UK

I am writing to ask you to cancel folk singer Michelle Shocked's upcoming performance at your venue.
On Sunday, March 18, Michelle Shocked stunned a San Francisco audience with a vicious anti-gay tirade. (Source: http://is.gd/O2IEGF) Shocked told the crowd that she lived in fear of same-sex marriage and even co-opted the rhetoric of the Westboro Baptist Church, an anti-gay hate group, by...

I am writing to ask you to cancel folk singer Michelle Shocked's upcoming performance at your venue.
On Sunday, March 18, Michelle Shocked stunned a San Francisco audience with a vicious anti-gay tirade. (Source: http://is.gd/O2IEGF) Shocked told the crowd that she lived in fear of same-sex marriage and even co-opted the rhetoric of the Westboro Baptist Church, an anti-gay hate group, by declaring that "God hates fags."
Audience members reportedly walked out in disgust.
Freedom of speech and artistic expression are critically important, but this isn't free speech. This is hate speech. And in a world where LGBT people are bullied from the pulpit, on the playground, and at the polls, anti-gay hate speech can have serious consequences including legitimizing bullying and hate crimes, and increasing victims' risk of anxiety, depression, and suicide.
Do you believe, as Michelle Shocked apparently does, that "God hates fags?" More importantly, does your performance venue want to be associated with an artist who promotes that kind of ugly hatred? I would hope not.
A venue in Illinois has already cancelled Michelle Shocked's upcoming appearance there in light of her anti-gay rant. To avoid appearing to condone hate speech, I suggest you do the same and cancel Michelle Shocked's performance at your venue.

[Your name]

yet they claim Gayinc doesn’t bully people or Business. What a bunch of shit.

Monday, March 18, 2013

Gays acting badly in Greenville, NC

Not sure on this but I wouldn’t be surprise if the group of folks who were meeting at a local Restaurant in Greenville, didn’t patronize the restaurant that was allowing them to meet there for free..

FYI: tonight in Greenville, EqualityNC was to hold a meeting,

Community leaders in Greenville, NC, are continuing their ongoing work towards equality!
Join Greenville activists on working to strengthen community activism and build bases of support in faith, business and
rural communities. Take action for Equality.,

I’m not sure if it happen, or if it was a great success, however I have to wonder what the hell is wrong with the LGBT Community in Greenville, after reading the following from the local social Hub/tea shop that was hosting the meeting.

If you are having a meeting at Tipsy, you are meeting in a restaurant. With big bills: Electric, payroll, rent, etc. Please do us the courtesy of making a purchase without us having to get all passive aggressive on you! Thank you.

Really Folks, she allow you to meet for free, you can’t buy a drink, a salad or a damn sandwich to help the place out. She is giving you valuable income space for free. The owner of the Tipsy Teapot goes out of her way to help and support her community. She gracious allow local community groups to use the other after of the shop for meeting and parties- most of the time for free or very little cost. Yet in turn its not much to ask that you patronize her business while there. Times are hard for everyone, its even harder for local small business too. 

Will Gayinc Push for this Asst. Professor to be removed

Homocon asshats Doug Mainwaring and Robert Oscar Lopez have joined the NOM payroll as speakers at next week's Hate March on the Supreme Court.  Both signed onto a Supreme Court brief against LGBT civil rights and last week both testified against their own people before the Minnesota legislature. (from the kept boy blog..)homoconasshats Since Gayinc demands anyone who doesn’t support their Cause to be remove from their jobs, how long will it take.Before they demand University of Northridge to get rid of Robert Oscar Lopez.

This is the same group that had Demanded that a whole company be remove from a college campuses in 2012 and 2013.. (chick-fil-a)

Here recently they have bullied several performers to back out on the NOM and the Boy Scouts. while claim they had nothing to with, that the performers only recently realized  that NOM and Boy Scouts don’t like “the Gays”..

When will Gayinc stop their Str8phobia.

Friday, March 15, 2013

Nothing good to read

that is in this bi-weekly issue of Qnotes,

QNotes Gay Charlotte and LGBT Carolina News, Arts & Entertainment_2013-03-15

nothing good at all.. complete waste of paper and MB’s space..

Thursday, March 14, 2013

What is this Cis Shit, in our community??

we wonder why we are attack over and over, and why so many think Transsexual/transgender need medical attention..


I agree with 3 and 4, but 2 is complete bullshit, if you look like a ma am, that is what I going to call, if you look like a sir that is what I going to call you. and for 5 the last time I check there was only two genders on this planet.. Male and Female.

Glaad Bans the NY Post from it Gala

Glaad Media Awards will be taking place in Manhattan Saturday, this is just one of few awards galas that will be held this year. This year in NY they will be honoring Anderson Cooper, a once closet case to the highest order. They will be giving him the Vito Russo Award, and it it said Madonna will be presenting the award to him, how nice.

The New York Post, I guess asked for a press pass and it was denied due to the fact the NY Post doesn’t play nicely with the LGBT Community. More importantly they, The Post won’t bow down to Glaad, that is one reason too.

GLAAD was founded in 1985 to challenge The New York Post's blatantly anti-gay coverage of the HIV/AIDS crisis. More than 27 years later, the paper continues to defame the LGBT community with its sensational framing of transgender stories and its disgraceful practice of referring to transgender people with vulgar slurs. "The Post has been digging its feet in the ground for too long on this issue," said GLAAD President Herndon Graddick. "Transgender people, particularly those who are victims of crime, deserve more than the vile slurs and underhanded 'jokes' with which the Post describes them. Until this paper changes its ways and apologizes for the damage done, GLAAD has no interest in supporting their work."

Glaad is apart of Gayinc, which here lately is nothing more than a Bully Organization. They have been criticize for goes easy on those network that do bash or really make fun of  the LGBT community if the network gives them a very large donation.. Those networks that don ‘t gets their full attention.

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

Greenville Finally get some much need Attention from Equality NC.

I guess after months of bitching and complaining how Eastern NC is always left out by Equality NC and Qnotes, it must be paying off. At least one way, Equality NC has host more meeting Greenville. Either it beside the finally figured out that Eastern NC is important after the lost of Amendment 1, where ENC coming ignore the East.. Then again could it be a small group of folks are trying get the community together once again and revive the Down East Gay Pride.

Here is the latest news from Equality NC event that will be happen on the 18th of this month, yes once again very short notice.. turn out much be low once again.

Greenville Community Action Night_2013-03-13

no much to go..

Monday, March 11, 2013

Light the Way to Justice | Fayetteville Vigil done correct

Light the Way to Justice_Fayettevile Vigil_2013-03-11

Equality NC no location for Charlotte but event created

Light the Way to Justice_Charlotte Vigil_2013-03-11

what is with ENC with all this half ass shit they are doing here lately.

ENC half ass on Greensboro Event

Light the Way to Justice_Greensboro Vigil_2013-03-11

still no location..

However their Asheville event was done right

Once again Equality NC does a half ass job

Really, they post a Facebook Event location TA, really how hard is it to get a location before you post the event. I guess Tracey Hollister and Madeline Goss is new to setting up events for Equality NC.

Light the Way to Justice_Raleigh Vigil_2013-03-11

they did a updated while I was posting this,


As the Supreme Court judges the fate of DOMA and Prop 8, join us for as we call for full LGBT equality.
Vigils will be taking place across the country as the nation's highest court hears oral arguments in the Prop 8 and DOMA cases on March 26 and 27.
Equality NC is honored to host the March 26th vigil led by community leaders Tracey Hollister and Madeline Goss.
The event will involve:
* Featured speakers
* Candlelight vigil
* Live tweeting other state & national events. #Light2Justice
More vigils are being planned across the state and country as a growing coalition of organizations and communities stand together for full equality, including events hosted by Equality NC and Campaign for Southern Equality. Join one near you:
Want to plan your own event? For more information visit, http://www.lighttojustice.org/

However still no location..

NC Values Coalition Busing folk to DC this March 26

Yes they are, the cost is fifty buck, which I’m think about doing to get there, since no LGBT marriage equality isn’t doing anything to help our Community to get their. They only provide travel and lodging info that all, as usual they want our money and give us nothing in return



Once again our opposition have their shit together why our (lgbt) orgs play the like game on Facebook. yes our Orgs can’t help sponsor a bus cause they don’t have the funds, yet they have the funds to hold these expensive galas to ass kiss those in Hollywood and the rich old white men that are in the closet..

It would be cheaper for me to pay NCVC 50 bucks then to take a bus or train..

Saturday, March 9, 2013

Light To Justice - Wilson Vigil

  • Sunday, March 24, 2013

  • 7:00pm until 8:00pm

    • Wilson County Courthouse Front Steps (Poor Weather Location TBA). Address: 115 Nash Street E., Wilson, NC

    • Join us for a Wilson vigil as part of a nationwide call for full equality and justice for LGBT people.
      As the US Supreme Court hears oral arguments in the Prop 8 and DOMA cases on March 26 and 27, vigils will be taking place across the country. We are honored to host the March 24th Wilson, N.C. vigil. The event will involve:
      * Speaking and reading by community members
      * Drums by DeeAnn Macomson
      * Fellowship
      Similar vigils are being planned across the country as a growing coalition of organizations and communities stand together for full equality, led by Marriage Equality USA and GetEqual. This is an open-sourced action. Anyone can sign up and plan their own event and list it there, and we encourage you to do so!
      For more information: http://www.lighttojustice.org/
      Please pass the word and invite people to come with you (and/or feel free to repost this information)!

    • Glaad NY Gala Needs help

      yes, they could sell enough of those high price chairs , so they are raffling off a free trip to NY to one lucky person ..

      I guess this raffle is to make up their shortage, I wonder who may not get paid.. Facebook_2013-03-09

      Friday, March 8, 2013

      Did Glaad Pressure Carly Rae Jepsen to cancel her Gig at The Boy Scout Jamboree

      On Twitter this week, Jepsen said: ‘As an artist who believes in equality for all people, I will not be participating in the Boy Scouts of America Jamboree this summer. I always have and will continue to support the LGBT community on a global level and stay informed on the ever-changing landscape in the ongoing battle for gay rights in this country and across the globe.’

      The fact is that She said yes to the Boys Scouts, then bow out after Glaad got on her via Change,org thru a Petition by a former Eagle Scout Derek Nance who is gay.

      Now I bet last month when the Scout was deciding to end their ban on Gay scouts – if they did, Ms Jespen would still be headlining their Jamboree.

      Gayinc is attacking anyone and everyone who doesn’t bow down to them, In fact Glaad is now a LGBT supported Bully.

      So just how did Glaad Bully her, did they threaten her with boycotts. I bet they did.. However she did know the BS policies before agreeing to perform at the Jam, to say she didn’t would a damn lie..

      Sunday, March 3, 2013

      Joemygod has block me from commenting on his Blog..

      Not that I really care, Joe who thinks he god’s gift really need to stop kissing Gayinc Ass for awards and free vacations..

      Joe. My. God._From The_i_New York Daily News_i_20130303_165344.png

      Thursday, February 28, 2013



      Yes, they are returning to Greenville, after the meeting that was held a few weeks back which was a epic failure. No all Equality NC fault, the community has to been held at fault too.

      then again with these short ass notices that Equality love to give no wonder only 8 –9 people shown..

      like this meeting five days notice..

      Who ever doing the Event set up at Equality NC need to a better job.. yes the Director of Organizing need to get  her self together and do her job better..

      Tuesday, February 26, 2013

      Jeremy Hooper the Kept Boy, commented on me..

      Jeremy who blogs at Goodasyou.com, had the following to say about me..


      SickNTired is someone who has a weird vendetta against anyone who actually shows up and engages in this fight. This person spent his or her entire weekend on a hashtag for an LGBT Media Summit I attended just want only attacking anyone and everything. If you want to make the effort to locate this person's twitter account, you can see it for yourself. I will not link to it.

      This person's odd obsessions and bizarre character assassinations (which have ranged from attacking people's financial situations, questioning Pam Spaulding's health, knocking my marriage, claiming we're all "kept" by "Gay Inc," etc.) have become running jokes of just about any LGBT conference. He or she never shows up to anything, he or she never makes an effort to actually understand where anyone is coming from, he or she never does anything resembling heavy lifting. Instead, this person attacks for sport, often in a very personal way. Some find it annoying while others find it enraging. I find it sad and unfortunate that someone would channel his or her passions in this way when he or she could actually be helping to change the deep problems he or she apparently sees within our movement.

      My suggestion is to ignore it. The negative energy is not worth the time.

      If he did a good search on me, like he does on everything NOM, he would have seen that I have attend and photography many rallies and posts here in North Carolina, I had supply Qnotes with some photos of these events. Also he might have found the Qnotes piece, which is a basic attack piece on me through my partner.

      Then again I don’t’ except for a kept boy to do anything like work..

      Jeremy born in the fall of 1979, graduated from a school in Tenn in 1997, he moved to New York in 2002, where I guess he meet his keeper. He starts his blog in 2005, then in 2009 married his keeper. Since he is a kept boy he had time to write a book in 2012. Also has the time to do in depth research on NOM..

      Now just like I don’t know his daily routine, in turn he doesn’t know mine. so to write that I don’t do anything in my community concerning Gayright is pure conjecture.

      Sunday, February 24, 2013

      My Google Vs Bing test

      I search for the following on both lgbtmedia13, and bing lost big time.

      lgbtmedia13 - Bing_20130224_100544lgbtmedia13 - Google Search_20130224_100528

      google had the best related search items,, bing had items that didn't match the search,,, so Bing is big loser in my test.

      Thursday, February 21, 2013

      A Bunch of Gayinc’ers to meet in Philly this weekend.

      yes Bill of the Bilerico Project has once again con the Haas Foundtion to flip the bill for this event, which is a vacation type thing for Bill, and a day at the spa.. 

      These are some who might be there,, Many write for his Blog, which they are not paid, so in a way this event is like a pad holiday for them via Bill.

      They will be on Twitter too at this has tag, #lgbtmedia13


      • David Badash (New Civil Rights Movement)
      • Matthew Bajko (Bay Area Reporter)
      • Matt Baume (Gay Marriage Watch)
      • Andrew Belonsky (Towleroad)
      • Trish Bendix (AfterEllen)
      • Sarah Blazucki (NLGJA board member)
      • Lester Braithwaite (Queerty/GayCities)
      • Bil Browning (Bilerico Project)
      • Sean Bugg (Metroweekly)
      • Kelli Busey (PlanetTransgender)
      • Faith Cheltanham (BiNetUSA)
      • Jen Christensen (NLGJA board president)

      Tuesday, February 19, 2013

      Call out EqualityNC on twitter, you get block

      Equality NC (equalitync) on Twitter_20130219_112244

      to follow them all I need to do is not to sign in to twitter to see and follow them..

      You go Girl. Finally someone stands up too GLAAD

      Now she's speaking out about it:

      Banks“There are such bigger problems… and then you've got organisations like GLAAD [Gay And Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation], which are f**king complete bulls**t.
      “I mean let's look at it, it's gay and lesbian alliance against defamation, or whatever…. that's what it stands for, right? I mean would you agree that homosexuals, and the homosexual community, have bigger problems than the word faggot, you know what I mean?"

      also, Banks pledges not to be torn down:

      “Some people are Satanists, some people are Christians, some people are Jews, Buddhists, you know what I mean? Some people are still Nazis… there are some people who are still KKK members… Come on people, please. If you're trying to call me a homophobe, you're basically trying to imply that I’m insulting you for having sex with men. I have sex with men too – what the f**k?

      “I have sex with men and women, do I have to take a picture of my licking a f**king pussy? What the f**k! It doesn't make any sense. It's so stupid. It's so stupid and it's so evil. And it's just like this stupid f**king media sh*t, you know what I mean? It's the media sh*t. And this is why I go about myself the way the way I go about myself, and I do whatever the f**k I want. If the media is going to build me up to tear me down, you motherf**kers are not going to tear me down.
      “I just make these f**king raps, and I'm just gonna wear these outfits, and f**king live my life. I can't deal with you motherf**kers, I don't have time for this sh*t.”

      More at The Music...

      Tuesday, February 12, 2013

      Shocking News from Qnotes..

      You know it has been said and paraphrase that Eastern NC is a waste of time and money for Qnotes to report about. Well Qnotes decided to give up some of their very precious time, money and web space for a article from the east.

      How don’t go, finally we matter to Qnotes, cause if the said event wasn’t being hosted by Equality NC, I bet Qnotes would have kept up  the status quo, we don’t matter. It is also shocking that we matter to Equality NC since they didn’t do much in the East doing the Amendment 1 campaign. But they run here after two lesbians gets a letter condemning their relationship..

      so here is the post on Qnotes

      Equality NC kicks off town hall tour in New Bern

      He got most of the info from Jen Jones of ENC via twitter and emails. which is ok.

      I only hope that he gives Greenville the same time and treatment as he did to New Bern, but I’m not holding my breath at all.

      The Greenville event can be found here, I hope this event is a success. I in Greenville the subject of the meeting is to address workplace non-discrimination and efforts in the city to protect LGBT public employees.

      Sunday, February 10, 2013

      The Charlotte LG Fund age discrimination at its worst.

      The film, “Were The World Mine,” is an artistic and musical queer spin on William Shakespeare’s “A Midsummer Night’s Dream,” recounting the story of a a bullied and demoralized gay student at an all-boys school who uses a magical flower to turn many in his community gay, including a comely rugby player for himself.

      After the film, a panel discussion of local LGBT youth will discuss their experiences in schools and in the community.

      The event is made possible by a grant from The Charlotte Lesbian & Gay Fund. Admission is free for those under 25 and $6 for those 25 and over.

      how nice, lets all the young boys in for free while charging the guys money to see the same movie. this remember me of those bar where women are allow in for free and the guys must pay to get in..

      Yet GayInc would have you to believe our community is better then our straight counter-parts, Bullshit,

      Children should't be subject to life long medical choices

      Very interesting statement, which I'm sure the #transinc community will claim to be Transphobic.. in natural. There is nothing bias ...