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LGBT invisibility? or LGBT just not talk about

Is the LGBT Community Invisible, or just not active in public??

Recently a blogger wrote about how it seem that his local LGBT community is invisible,

If XXXXXXXXX hopes to move forward on local LGBT equality, our community will have to step up our public visibility. After all, if our own community and its leadership doesn’t care enough to make a stink over our treatment, why would the general public? It isn’t as if LGBT rights are on the forefront of an average citizen’s mind, you know.

Well that quote could mean just about any local community in North Carolina. There seems to be a  lack of cohesiveness and public advocacy present in many of our LGBT communities. This is not a new problem that popped up over night, however its problem that has decide to hang around for a long time, and we have grown custom to it.

In many of our communities, the members are allowing our local LGBT businesses to fail, ie,our LGBT bookstores, simple because the community would rather shop online then in …

What is PETA's problem

The funny thing is that most of every Peta person will be having turkey and ham this season.

What about all the animals that peta has killed over the years and thrown in trash dumpers...

Here is my Peta, People eating tasty animals

so much for not being too gay

what a ass, don't want to appear tooo gay on the Cover of OUT, but don't mind acting like he is getting a blowjob on stage... What a fucking douche bag Adam Lambert

Will this happen again this March 2010

Will this be repeated again this March, 2010 when the nutter from NC4Marriage holds their Rally in Raleigh, NC..
Yes i was there, many of our Local leaders didn't want us to hold a counter-protest.. I still have to wonder why???

10 Items of interest

Comments before comments

I know my post on the NC Hrc Gala, will get a few comments via mail or comment page.. about the black tie comment.

These Gala are nothing more then a money machine, for HRC, who doesn't want us to win Equality, in marriage or in the military because if we do they (joe) will be out of a job..


WOW 2010 HRC Gala to be held in Raleigh, NC

Wow I can't believe this, it is in Raleigh, I guess I will be attending,  meaning I will be outside getting shots with my camera. I wonder who will be protesting and boycotting them this year..

I guess the local Adult Bookstore will be busy that weekend

The HRC Carolinas Gala committee announces a call for applications for its "Emerging Leader Dinner Scholarships" and "Dinner Fellowships.
One of these scholarships call for you to work off your ticket as a volunteer at the gala..

so how much will it cost this year?????

Ticket Options
Regular Price tickets$175  Regular Price tickets (After February  10, 2010)
$200Federal Club Members -NC/SC$75
(limit two)Federal Club Council / Major Donor $0Premium Tables (seats 10)   $2500
just about the same last year..

Oh, before i forget, this Gala is a black-tie ass kissing event..

find them on facebook, twitter.

I wonder just who will be the keynote speaker, the spirits are telling that it will be Joe ass again, wh…

Comment reply

I'm sure your constructive criticism (or lack thereof) could be put to better use. 
Yes I guess it couldbe, like telling how as community we fucking everything up. We are not the true bigots, we are the new antti-hate everyone who doesn't agree with us, if you speak out against us, we will make sure you lose your job, the list goes on and on.

HRC is nothing more then a money making scheme Face it, he we would wake up tomorrow and have every right we always want, what would GLAAD, HRC and other groups do, it would mean they would be out of a job..

These Groups have turn us into nothing more then a FUCKING meal ticket..

Our LGBT community groups don't want Equality, or gay marriage, if this happens their meal ticket goes bye bye. just like true reporters....

thanks to these group, free speech as taken another hit, I wonder how much longer before that right is completely goes, freedom of press now means who is/will give us the most money to report what they want reported. free…

Gay Blog Site gets a pass using degrading word "Fag"

Notice the caption FAG FEUDS. Now if this was on any blog at wasn't a gay blog Glaad would be all over it...

Whatever happen too??? Lockdown..

Last year Q-notes published pieces from a inmate here in NC, who was doing time for have sex with an underage teenager, He admitted to his mistakes and was doing his time for those mistakes.

He wrote a few great pieces that Qnotes published over time, then someone had a problem with those pieces, so what did the staff do, their held a poll, well the poor fellow lose, the person who started the bitchfest claim we shouldn't give a Sexual Offender a platform, how nice..

Here is the ugly gay truth, How many gay males over their lifetime has had sex with a 16, 17, or under?? Hell many of those gay teenagers went after older men. How many 18 yo gay men had sex with their highschool boyfriend who happen to be 17, remember under current laws in many state this is a crime... I speak from experience, when I was 15, i went after a 30 yo guy, simply because i hear he was hung as a horse, at 16 it as a cute sales rep from the food service where my boss got her food from.. So if these two guys …

Holy cow shit WTF

It must be bad when you need to had women's equity to LGBT equity to get people to come to it...

Nov. 21 • Cullowhee
Equality festival

Western Carolina University’s UNITY presents Fight for Equal Rights 2009, a festival celebrating and supporting the continuation of equality and civil rights including women’s rights and LGBT rights. For more information, contact the group at or through their Facebook page at
Once again we have strange bedfellows in our mist. First off what the hell does Women Equality have to do with LGBT Equality?? Ooops that right most of LGBT equality does center around the Lesbians, so I guess it goes hand and hand. We talk about LGBT's being second class citizens, when in truth lately Men have become second class citizens...

Some problems heres

Women robbed at Battle Park From Staff Reports

Monday, November 16, 2009
Two Rocky Mount women told police they were robbed at gunpoint late Saturday at Battle Park.
The 18- and 20-year-old victims said they were parked near the boat ramp at the park around 10:30 p.m. when a man wearing a bandana over his face and a red sweatshirt appeared from the wooded area next to the ramp. The victims said the man was carrying a long gun with a wooden stock.
The man pointed the gun at the driver, removed both victims from the car and ordered them to the ground.
A second man appeared and ransacked the women’s car, taking a Tinkerbell purse, money, a credit card and two cell phones.
The gunman fired a shot before fleeing the scene, the women said.
The victims left and reported the incident 15 minutes later from one of their homes.
The women said the gun-wielding suspect looked to be between 18 and 20 years old, and about 5-foot-9. They didn’t get a good look at the other man, the victims sa…

Today's Quote, and something to think about

If they can so easy pass laws to ban us from Marriage, none of our rights can be taken for granted.

If community standards are, reason enough to Legislate anti-anytype discrimination, the backside of our freedom as begun

I beg you to take a good look at the election result from around the country, get in touch with your anger, and put it to work.

If we do not, I promise our community will be attack by the fascist right in the name of decency and family values with unprecedented vigor, better to find your anger now then to wait for the next election and ask where are my rights.
by Harvey Fierstein

Relpy to commet

Matt Comer has commented on Blog Post
The message left:
SNT, it is a shame you could find nothing positive to say about the Out 100, as you fail to mention openly lesbian and gay North Carolina natives Pam Spaulding and Chris Hughes.
Spaulding, who is a native of and still lives in Durham, and Hughes, a native of Hickory, surely have contributed more than their fair share to not only the state and national LGBT community, but to the entire international community as well.
Spaulding operates the highly successful, must-read Hughes, co-founder of, was the mastermind behind Barack Obama's presidential campaign's social networking genius.
Q-Notes covered Spaulding's and Hughes' placement in the Out 100 briefly on our website on Tuesday morning:
First off I have never been a great fan of Out Mag, to me this mag is a complete waste of time, its buys into every sterotype our community have. It marginalize many in our community as well.


Out's100 so-called gay greats

let's look at those that on this because of something so fucking stupid that its not funny

Dan choi, he open his big mouth about being gay, then gets kick out of the military, then goes on national tv claiming hes a victim, please just a attention seeking   

Chaz Bono, all this list because who her mommy and daddy are,, now she decide to cut off her breasts.. wow what a reason to be on this list.

Adam Lambert, just because he is young semi in the closet singer who was on American Idol.

Many other are those who play gay, are those who have written many gay story lines, bands and so..
Most aren't even gay at all...

Adam LambertWanda SykesRob MarshallDan ChoiCyndi LauperChristopher BaileyNeil Patrick HarrisPedro AlmodóvarGavin CreelKelly McGillisJohn GloverMarc CherryBarney FrankTammy BaldwinJared PolisLee DanielsTerence DaviesJesse Tyler FergusonFelice PicanoEdmund WhiteAndrew HolleranTony KushnerChris HughesRobert LongbottomArthur LaurentsWill YoungScott EvansAdamo RuggerioPau…

Block on twitter WHY???

Well I try to niteto follow a fellow gay blogger on Twitter to nite only to find out I was block from following his f'ing ass. I wonder why..

Why this blogger is now living in NC...

Anywhoo, I really don't care, since i can see all his tweets by going to his twitter page..

Foggy park


Purdue Students Protest Librarian’s Anti-Gay Blog Post

From Big Gay News

Some Purdue University students have called for a faculty member to be fired after he posted comments online urging discussion on what he called the economic cost to society of homosexuality. Purdue officials said they would not discipline Bert Chapman, who is the university’s government information and political science librarian and does not have a classroom teaching assignment.
Read the full story from the Chicago Tribune.

No free speech against the gays, if you do we will act like a bunch of whining ass fucking babies and demand that you get fired, because you are being mean to us..

Yet the community is railroading free speech in the fucking ground, now step in Hate crime laws to protect us.

his comment
Chapman wrote last month on the Web site that money spent on AIDS would be better used for other health initiatives, such as cancer or heart disease research, and that the current health care debate needed to address "an economic case against homo…

Q-notes wants your input!

What do you want to see in Q-Notes? Looking to 2010 Really, it is hard to believe Thanksgiving and Christmas are already upon us. But the Q-Notes staff is busy trying to put the final touches on our 2010 Editorial Calendar. When most sane people are concentrating on the here and now, our staff is looking into the future.
And this is where you come in: As we wrap up our next full year of features coverage, we want to hear your feedback on some of the issues and feature topics you’d like to see in Q-Notes. Maybe you want more travel features, or fashion tips, or entertaining and dining features. Whatever it is, let us know in the comments section below, or email us at
So they what their readers input, what they want more of in the year. This is very interesting to say.

I once criticize them for not including Eastern NC in their coverage, I now understand that they can only report and write about what is share with them. This mostly fall on the Eastern NC LGBT Communit…

NC Equality Gala and Conference

Once again this Gala is being held at a high price venue, The Empire Room in Greensboro, NC

These are the ticket prices
Individual: $199 for both conference and gala, $150 for gala only, $60 for conference only.
Student: $115 for both conference and gala, $85 for gala only, $30 for conference only.
Limited Income: $40 for conference only.
source, q-note 

Yet if  you have did this you get in for free
Complimentary admission if you have donated $1,200 or more to Equality NC and Equality NC Foundation during calendar year 2009
 if you were able to buy you ticket in advance you got a discount, however
Conference & Gala reduced rate no longer available
 Gala only reduced rate no longer available after

this is what you are help to pay for beside over price food, and speakers fees

I knew there are cheap conference room or centers..
These gala only serve to keep those that they don't want there.

about the Gala
The Equality Gala brings people from across the state to celebrate all that we've…

Why Won't HRC Jump On Board the DNC Boycott?

this is from Queerty's blog, click here to visit
Often viewed, accurately, as an extension of the Democratic party, the Human Rights Campaign has gone back and forth with how much criticism it's willing to levy on the White House and members of Congress. But now that members of the indie (read: non-Gay Inc.) activist scene are boycotting the Democratic National Committee, where will HRC's chips fall?

HRC's Joe Solmonese, who claims to represent the entire LGBT community but completely bails out on certain gay issues, claims to enjoy special power brokering relationships in Washington. Supporters might see lots of handshakes between Solmonese and lawmakers; actual action and influence, however, is harder to spot.

It's eerily difficult to tell just how hard HRC is pressuring Democrats on its own. Some might say HRC merely "advises" them.

One minute, the organization is demanding action from Obama; the next, it's giving him a seven-year pass.

But now that…

Another Question of the night..

click here to read post
So add LE to Fag (make it sound french) makes this ok, I guess it does, we are allow to use the word but please don't allow any other group to use it...

Who said the following???

is charged by God to inspect the fruits of those among whom we live.

Leave  you guess in the comments, please

The King has been Shot


SNT: Being call a Fag from a Community Member

I once wrote that we do far more damage to ourselves and group then any outside force..That what is below as an example..

James Seabolt, recent Facebook comment,

Jamie Seabolt Why does the fags of West Virginia insist on being so third-world, backword, TRASHY!?!Now this is from a person who wanted to be Mr Gay.Com, Where he was a silver finalist, community leader
jamie Seabolt
about me & why I’d like to be mr 2008
You could call me ambitious or someone with a flame lit under him, but I have always loved to help others. As a teen, I won grants to improve my West Virginia high school and logged the most community service hours in WV schools history. In my early 20s, I started two gay newspapers to fill much-needed gaps and gave me a top five spot in their first "Entrepreneur of the Year" contest. Since then, I left gay media to expand my horizons as a positive gay male in corporate and federal government work. Now, I have moved into the Bible belt to Myrtle Be…