Thursday, December 31, 2009

SNT: WTF, Sorry GAGA you are not worth 25, 000 dollars

Lady Gaga is playing the Fontainebleau in Miami on New Year's Eve, and has sold over $1 million in tickets:
"The 'Poker Face' singer is said to be getting about 300,000 dollars for the show. Based on sales through Web site, tickets for the singer's performance to ring in 2010 are almost non-existent, with only a few 25,000-dollar tables left and some general admission seats at 425 dollars."

These types of events are for the sick f'ing rich, this is just fucking sickening big time... 

Something I found was surfing the net

the effort to pass the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) for many years – in fact, entirely too many years. It is inexcusable that our LGBT families and loved ones must continue to endure a legal system in which they can be fired in 29 states for being gay or lesbian, and in 38 for being transgender or expressing their gender identity differently.

This pic just might be true, however Str8 and gays are sometime fired for things that should not matter.

I wonder how many of those whom join Soul force in the past and present just might one day lose their job for simply being arrest for trespassing. Better yet, how about being fired for a bad check you wrote back in 1991, that was taken care but is still on your records.

I personally feel that our community use this as the main excuse to justice why they were fired. Because we always do our jobs, we are never late, we never take personal calls, take more then our breaks allow, we never surf the web or visit those no no site while at work.

It would seem that we blame everything that happens to us as gay hate, The only thing I haven't heard of  is "I was deny a loan because I was gay.."

So is there anything in our life that we don't blame on our sexuality???

Monday, December 28, 2009

Current Events 12/28/09

many DC lgbt citizens are piss over the new public Transportation Ads, what else is new.

The recent killing of gay activist Walter Tróchez in Honduras shows a troubling increase in hate crimes in the past six months in the Central American

Charlotte Robinson chats with gay political humorist Kate Clinton to get her reflection on how 2009 played out for addressing LGBT issues.

The statistics show that reported hate crimes against the LGBT community have increased for the third year in a row. Hate crimes based on sexual orientation

Here is another take on the call to protest the new movie Avatar, which inmy opinion is about the stupidest protest call to action for 2009 

A Benton Harbor-based gay advocacy organization issued a "community alert" earlier this week after a gay man was beaten at a Benton Township gas station, possibly because of his sexual orientation.

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Currents Events

Irish man attack in Queen
A gay bashing in St. Louis
There was a mistrial in this Gay bashing.
The case against Darren Morgan and Howard Rice in the alleged assault and gay bashing of two men this past summer has been continued
FORMER Australia's Next Top Model contestant Lola Van Vorst has unwittingly been caught up in a gay bashing incident.

A Call to Action Demand Justice

This is From Rod 2.0 blog, click to read post

A gay Toledo man is dead after a brutal beating and the suspect is released from jail without bond. There is no official explanation for the vicious assault on Marland Woods that included "kicking and stomping" his head ... but police say "there is no indication" it was a hate crime.
The trouble began the early morning of December 13 on the dance floor at Caesar’s Showbar. The brawl spilled into the street after the crowd was ejected. Thirty-two-year-old Woods reportedly tried to intervene and protect another individual during the melee.
Woods then walked across the street to the bus station at 711 Jefferson, where he was attacked by another man, Toledo police said. The man kicked Mr. Woods and stomped on his head. He then fled with two others in a white Jeep. Shortly after, police stopped the vehicle at 17th and Adams streets and arrested Mr. Corggens after a brief scuffle, officers said. Jade Boff, 21, of Fostoria also was charged with disorderly conduct, intoxication, and resisting arrest.
Woods was hospitalized and succumbed to head injuries nearly a week later on Dec. 19. Prosecutors charged 20-year-old Corggens with felonious assault, reports The Courier, "but have not charged him or anyone else with murder." Corggens was released on his own recognizance pending a January 8 preliminary hearing. It's not known if Lucas County prosecutors will upgrade charges to manslaughter or perhaps second-degree murder.
Woods had a 10-year domestic partnership with Brian Hunker. The two purchased a house together in Findlay in 2005 and had a commitment ceremony in September. "Every hour is a struggle," Hunker tells WTVG.
Says Shonda Floyd, the sister: "He was such a homebody. This was only the second time this year he went to a bar and this happened to him. He never started any trouble. He died trying to keep someone else from being hurt." Shonda Floyd adds to WTVG: "I am so angry ... I want to see some type of justice. They stomped my brother. It’s absolutely not right... They took away my kids’ uncle. They took away my brother."

We must call and demand justice in this case..

Freedom of Speech and Expression under attack from Equality DC

A freedom of expression battle is underway in D.C. as Stand for Marriage D.C., the most outspoken voice against D.C.'s recent legalization of marriage equality, has placed ads on the District's Metrobuses urging that citizens be allowed to vote on civil rights.
Full Equality Now DC wants the ads removed by the Washington Metropolitan Area Transit Authority (WMATA) on the grounds that they disrespect LGBT residents.

Wow, what else is new.

DC pass Marriage Equality, Anti-gay Marriage groups vow to undo it, take out ad, which is their legal right and the Local Gays Group cry foul.. Its ok for us to have these rights but not the anti-groups to have them.

Saturday, December 26, 2009

Q-notes Another Year bites the dust.

To read the is story Click here.

As I read this news piece I read with trepidation. I thought to myself that this piece who almost completely evolve around the actions and inaction in Charlotte. I must say I was reading it to see if the Staff of Qnotes included actions of Greenville LGBT Community this past Year.
If they weren't mention This Post would've been a complete attack on Qnotes for not including the whole NC LGBT Community.

I'm glad to said that The Staff did a great job, by mention Our actions that had taken Place in Greenville over this year.

So with Thanks,,
hope to see many more articles from the East in 2010

Wednesday, December 23, 2009


the photo that Glaad is bitching about,,what if that photo was of Chaz Bono who was taken male hormones and started to grow hair every, but yet hasn't had the cut off my breast op yet.. would it still be trans-phobic????

Must Read, UK section 44 photography

Police officers in the UK Police Constabularies apparently do not understand English, and continue to use Section 44 of the Terrorism Act 2000 and and Section 76A of the Counter-Terrorism Act 2008 to prevent public photography, despite Home Office instructions to the contrary.
The British Journal of Photography is conducting a ‘Not A Crime’ campaign to raise awareness about the increasing restrictions imposed on professional photographers in the UK and overseas. For more information, visit
[ Read the article at: BJP ]

Sandra Bernhard hits New York, you go girl

Sandra Bernhard talks to Autostraddle about prepping her eight live shows next week at Joe’s Pub in New York City, separatism between gay men & lesbians, Obama and the gay rights movement, her fave celeb trainwreck on Twitter, and gives advice to Lindsay & Samantha.

Just how stupid can one be

From the Towleroad,

Production of bareback pornography to be banned in California? "Michael Weinstein, President of AIDS Healthcare Foundation said: 'Although workers in adult films should enjoy protections under [current regulations], the adult film industry has steadfastly refused to take any steps to protect its workers from diseases spread by blood-borne pathogens, resulting in thousands of employees becoming infected with sexually transmitted diseases.'"

First off those whom work in this line of work, knows or should have known what risk their are taken on-- to solely blame the producers for not protecting their's whores/prostitutes/sexworkers is completely wrong. Sexual diseases are not new they have been around for a long time. 

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Jellyfishes in the sky, Not really

Currents Events

Well it seem that Tommy Boy is being sued by the very guy who once tried to out him
Microsoft lose appeal,, they must stop selling Word,, they have ripoff the true makers of the program...
Can you believe it, Mexico City to Allow Gay Marriages, WOW...

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Jaded Guest is Piss and getting mad.

Guest has commented on Comment on this Post
The message left:
For the sake of clarification, is your argument Vanessa Willock should have let it be because offending christian sensibilities outweighs that of someone being discriminated against on the basis of her sexual orientation?
Your forget to mention that her cowfriend later email her as well, but this time didn't tell her it was for a same-sex marriage..

I can only hope that every Christian or those who support prop8 goes in search for gay business owners in the printing, photography, and other area and ask them to do work for them.. Maybe a Printing company would be the best bet,, ask for new flyers for their anti-gay marriage rally... Then if the printer refuse I hope the christians take them to court as well and Win, then jaded assholes like you will claim they were attack solely because they were gay business owners... Lambda Legal would be called in,, to help...

She had every right to refuse business,

Currents Events

Well another closet gay man in sport decide to come out, 
Another Lesbian Couple try to divorce in another state.. only after five years..
BBC said we are sorry for our recent Poll,
Another Lesbian files a stupid lawsuit...
British Prime M, call for gay family Rights

Guest is piss, and jaded, i wonder why?

Guest has commented on this Post
The message left:
Here's the problem I have with your interpretation of this event: Jon & Elaine Huguenin have appeared in numerous anti-gay causes (Yes On 8 webcasts for example) to the delight of Maggie Gallagher, Jim Garlow, Matt Barber, Focus On The Family, AFTAH. and hundreds of other anti-gay activists and bloggers. In fact, it was them who hired the Alliance Defense Fund... so the notion that these were poor christian photographers being bullied by militant lesbians is implausible.
The day ADF was hired was the day this stopped being about photographing a wedding and $7,000 dollars.

Yet everytime something happens to us, we run to our gay national groups for help, this is Ok for us, but not our counterparts, Just had Jaded have we become.

Ms Cow Lesbian was searching for a photography, whom should have everything to turn down any business that she wants. going by your twist logic, then Lambda  Legal has the take every case a LGBT person asked, yet they don't, they only take cases where they can get national or state wide coverage.

This Cow was looking for a headline story, to cry i was discriminate against because I'm a carpet munching lesbian. I bet she did fine someone to take pictures of her damn event...

She had no sign contact for this service at all.

Friday, December 18, 2009

Thank you, you f'ng lesbian cow from hell

a ruling today by the New Mexico courts that upheld a decision by the state's Human Rights Commission which awarded lesbian Vanessa Willcock (insert snarky pun) $6,637.94 because Elane Photography refused to photograph Vanessa's commitment ceremony to Misty Pascottini on religious grounds.

The website for Elane Photography ( is down Elane is not answering her phone either.

I want to personal thanks this cunt,

In this class, this very in your face dyke didn't have a contract, she was searching for a photographer, once she was inform by this Christian photographer that she wouldn't be able to be their photographer, she stewed for a while and got mad because a Christian told her NO, she in turn file this stupid ass lawsuit to make a point. The point was you don't mess with us Dykes, "we will fuck your life up". Another dyke screwing things for everyone, this reminds me of the cartoons series "Dykes to watch out for". Since this one has help to give us a bad name (photographer), I'm just glad it wasn't me, I just might have told her NO as well.

I personally hope those of you, that have public service business in NM, maybe a printer business, I hope one day NOW walks into your business and get to hire you and you turn them down, I hope they will file the some complaint against your business..

That's right this ruling will and I hope it will be used against every damn gay business owner in NM, by our enemies..

Who are Second Class Citizens Really?

I know that we would like to claim that gays and Lesbains are second class citizens, how if the truth be told men are second class citizens of this Nation, I know you say how since men are in power more then women.. MMMM

Take the class below

Wis. teen will need legal permission to date girl

The Associated Press

Friday, December 18, 2009
APPLETON, Wis. — A Wisconsin teenager will need legal permission to date girls for the next three years after he was convicted of fleeing to Tennessee with his girlfriend in a stolen car.
Nineteen-year-old Jordan S. Christensen of Appleton was sentenced Friday to one year in jail and three years' probation. Outagamie County Judge John Des Jardins has ordered "no dating of the opposite sex without permission of your probation agent."
Christensen had pleaded no contest to charges of auto theft, stealing a firearm and bail jumping. He apologized for his actions before the sentencing.
Investigators say Christensen stole his foster parents' car May 26 and fled to the Memphis area with his 16-year-old girlfriend.
Information from: The Post-Crescent,

Now if this  judge order that a woman would need permission to date while on probation, every women groups across the land would be calling for his dismissal from the bench asap.

another point is why are men circumcise and women are not, now see its ok to cut off men extra skin (foreskin) but not for women, in those counties where female circumcision does happen, women in every other country call it wrong, yet these same women will allow this do be done to their sons, This is one reason why its ok to do this to men

It has been variously proposed that circumcision began as a religious sacrifice, as a rite of passage marking a boy's entrance into adulthood, as a form of sympathetic magic to ensure virility, as a means of suppressing sexual pleasure or to increase a man's attractiveness to women, or as an aid to hygiene where regular bathing was impractical, among other possibilities. Immerman et al. suggest that circumcision causes lowered sexual arousal of pubescent males, and hypothesize that this was a competitive advantage to tribes practicing circumcision, leading to its spread regardless of whether the people understood this.
If it for entrance to manhood then tell me why don't we let these young men decide if they want to have their manhood mutilated.. Well its not working for suppressing of sexual pleasure. Hygiene please, i'm sure there could be better reason then that.

Yet when it is done to a women it call the following, Female genital mutilation. Yet its ok to mutilate a male not a female. So ask your self who is truly a second class citizen. Here is the reason why this is a no no for female circumcision, Opposition is motivated by concerns regarding the consent (or lack thereof, in most cases) of the patient. and subsequently the safety and long-term consequences of the procedures. In the past several decades, there have been many concentrated efforts by the World Health Organization (WHO) to end the practice of FGC. The United Nations has also declared February 6 as "International Day Against Female Genital Mutilation". It's ok to mutilation boys a few day after birth or 8 days.. as long it make $$$$ for the doctors....

I'm sorry but I don't think every male child who was circumcise as a baby gave consent to have this done. So what sex is given more protection then the other, answer that question and you will see who are the second class citizens in this country

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Lack of CCTV Coverage gets pub shut down

Can you imagine having the local Police Department close down you business for the lack of CCTV coverage..

PC Julie Stewart from the licensing department at Preston Police was due to visit the pub (The Skeffington Arms in Ribbleton Lane) yesterday and said she would re-open it if CCTV was working.
She said: "It's for public safety and their own safety to detect crime. The pub had minimal CCTV – it wasn't recording. If an incident had happened and we needed to get evidence and locate an offender, we couldn't have from there. Even the staff aren't safe in those conditions."
 Please remember this, 

CCTV is very rarely a useful deterrent and has been shown on countless occasions to be equally poor when it comes to solving crimes.

(PCSOs) stopped Italian student Simona Bonomo

What does the police in the UK have in common with those here, "A bunch of little dicks wishing they were big ones"

Its funny to me that UK would enact such laws on photography only after 911, which happen on US soil and not in the UK, They didn't make this a issue while they were being bomb by the IRA for 20+ years.. I personally think the old wind bag (queen) is behind this, she no longer whats herself and sorry family bad acts photographed..

Section 44 be used against every citizen in the UK, and those who visit there..

Recent case is of a Italian Student, Click here to visit story. Here is another story as well

I bet this office gets off on harassing young women, (little prick just who do you think you are) Just because this office have a badge doesn't make them above the law.

Also it odd that UK Government have have camera on every block and now trying to place them in homes in the UK, yet they don't want their citizens to have camera's.. Big Brother in the UK watching your every step.

This issue is now find its way here, you know what every happen in England find its way over here in a few years, Read these site for more information

Assistant commissioner John Yates issues reminder that no laws prevent people from photographing buildings yet the UK Police are either hard head or brainless,.. or they get their little nuts off by harassing people with cameras.. all under Section 44

see they don't even listen to Scotland Yard at all.
Scotland Yard has told police officers there is "an enormous amount of concern" about the use of anti-terror laws against people taking photographs in the street.
In a circular to all Metropolitan borough commanders, John Yates, the assistant commissioner for specialist operations, advocated a "commonsense" approach and reminded officers there were no laws to stop people photographing buildings.
"Unless there is a very good reason, people taking photographs should not be stopped," wrote Yates, who is Britain's senior counter-terrorism officer.
Even the press over there gets harassed
There has been criticsm of alleged harassment of photographers. Last week the Guardian was stopped by police under section 44, after photographing the Gherkin building in the City to test how the law was being applied.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

TWO on the Arrest of Buju Banton

Buju_BantonPosted December 15th, 2009 by Wayne Besen Jamaican reggae star Buju Banton has been arrested over alleged drug conspiracy charges. The singer, real name Mark Anthony Myrie, has been in custody in Miami since Thursday and is expected to be transferred to Tampa, Florida.
According to the Miami Herald, Banton will be charged with conspiracy to possess with intent to distribute more than five kilos of cocaine. If convicted, he faces up to 20 years behind bars.
I’m sure Banton will get a warm welcome from the gays in prison.
How nice a gay person whom might be advocating gay rape to a person whom hates gays...
However judging by how Buju looks, I'm sure he will be the topper of any sex acts that might happen behind bars if he is convicted....I don't see him becoming some bottom fish in the big house...


Check out this article that I found posted on another site.

Laura Schlessinger is a US radio personality who dispenses advice to people who call in to her radio show. Recently, she said that homosexuality is an abomination according to Leviticus 18:22 and cannot be condoned under anycircumstances. The following is an open letter to Dr. Laura penned by a US resident:

Dear Dr. Laura:

Thank you for doing so much to educate people regarding God's Law. I have learned a great deal from your show and I try to share that knowledge with as many people as I can. When someone tries to defend the homosexual lifestyle, for example, I simply remind him or her that Leviticus 18:22clearly states it to be an abomination. End of debate. I do need some advice from you however, regarding some of the specific laws and how to follow them.

A) When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a pleasing odor for the Lord (Lev. 1:9). The problem is my neighbors. They claim the odor is not pleasing to them. Should I smite them?

B ) I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7. In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her?

C) I know that I am allowed no contact with a woman while she is in her period of menstrual uncleanliness (Lev. 15:19-24). The problem is, how do I tell? I have tried asking, but most women take offence.

D) Lev. 25:44 states that I may indeed possess slaves, both male and female, provided they are purchased from neighboring nations. A friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not Canadians. Can you clarify? Why can't I own Canadians?

E) I have a neighbor who insists on working on Sunday (the Sabbath). In the book of Exodus verse 35:2 it clearly states he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated to kill him myself?

F) A friend of mine feels that even though eating shellfish is an abomination (Lev. 11:10), it is a lesser abomination than homosexuality. I don't agree. Can you settle this?

G) Lev. 21:20 states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have defect in my sight. I have to admit that I wear reading glasses. Does my vision have to be 20/20, or is there some wiggle room here?

H) Most of my male friends get their hair trimmed, including the hair around their temples, even though this is expressly forbidden by Lev.19:27. How should they die?

I) I know from Lev. 11:6-8 that touching the skin of a dead pig makes me unclean, but may I still play football if I wear gloves?

J) My uncle has a farm. He violates Lev. 19:19 by planting two different crops in the same field, as does his wife by wearing garments made of two different kinds of thread (cotton/polyester blend). He also tends to curse and blaspheme a lot. Is it really necessary that we go to all the trouble of getting the whole town together to stone them? (Lev.24:10-16). Couldn't wejust burn them to death at a private family affair like we do with people who sleep with their in-laws? (Lev. 20:14).

I know you have studied these things extensively, so I am confident you can

Thank you again for reminding us that God's word is eternal and unchanging.
Your devoted disciple and adoring fan. 

Question of the Day?

Over at "Where's the Outrage" he wants to know if you think the following Mag Cover is Offensive. If you thinks so drop by and leave them a comment

Monday, December 14, 2009

ENC day of Action and WTF?

Equality NC has release the date for their Annual Day of Action, This time it will be held in May 24, 2010, not much has really change about this event,

About the Day of Action

Is helping to achieve LGBT equality worth one day off from work this year? We hope you can answer that question with a resounding YES.

The far right is once again pushing to amend our state constitution to discriminate against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender North Carolinians. They want to make us permanent second class citizens. We need your help to stop them! Attend the Equality NC Day of Action 2009 on Tuesday, March 24 to oppose the amendment and speak out for important legislation to address discrimination, HIV prevention and care funding, and other issues.

We'll provide training on how to talk with elected officials and bring you up to speed on the key issues this session, then send you off for appointments with your legislators.

Maybe this year I will be able to attend.. then after a few read the below comment I might not

I'm sure there are many in our community would love to attend this event but can't do to money problems or other issues. However if you happen to be a Trans-person there is hope for you to attend, Yes even though you can afford the boob job, plastic surgery, the many appoint with  your shrink, and the main Operation, but still find that you can't come up the money for gas to your ass there or a place to park your ass for the nite as well, after you have the butt job, just find free sending a email to request the following,

Transportation Assistance for Transgender Community

The Connie Spry Fund is a special fund created to honor the memory of our former board member Connie Spry, who was a strong advocate for the transgender community. The fund will provide assistance in covering transportation and lodging costs for transgender Day of Action participants with financial need.
To apply, please email Ian Palmquist  with the following information or call him at (919) 829-0343:
  • Your name, address and phone number
  • What you are requesting reimbursement for (gas money, parking fee, bus ticket, lodging if you must drive to Raleigh the night before Lobby Day, etc.).
  • A statement that you identify as transgender and have a financial need to cover these expenses.
We will respond to let you know if you have been approved for assistance.

 Wow lets help the Trans-person who seem to have all this money for the all Dr appts and meds and other items, but can't afford a trip to Raleigh, MMMM,

My Question for ENC is what about those who would like to attend by can't because of their health problems or financial problems, Once again a select group get a free pass... (solely because they are not happy with themselves)

Sunday, December 13, 2009

Protest held outside of a NY Sentor home,
Young lesbian killed str8 girl because she rejected her advances. Question should she be charge with a hate as well?
China to host first Mr Gay China, WOW
Bill O blows a casket over Adam L.
So Facebook, ban gay books ads, so is Facebook turning Anti-gay, will we protest Facebook????

To the one who thinks they know me (commet reply)

God how I love your replies to my comments! They're always so ripe with holier than thou indignation. It’s almost like I can see the veins throbbing on your forehead!

Cute. I post anonymously for two reasons. First, every time I do it drives you bat-shit crazy, and I think that helps reveal to everyone reading this blog the type of person you really are. Second, it forces you to focus more on the words I’m saying, reducing your temptation to invective and ad hominem (although I see you’re not beyond inventing a straw-man persona for me out of thin air).

However if you’re so determined that everyone should post using their real names I’m sure you can convince blogspot to block or disable anonymous comments. Then you’ll be rid of me for good.
Ok since you are from CA you are not whom I thought you were, but I'mkinda glad that you.. Since I have a few issue with those who live and work there....
your isp info,

Domain Name ? (Network)
IP Address 75.51.147.# (SBC Internet Services)
ISP SBC Internet Services
Location Continent North America
Country : United States
State : California
City : San Leandro

now to the show..

I'm so sorry to inform you that you are not able to drive me batty at all, only ones lately ableto really piss me off to the point that my face become crazy vein central  is member of my family, which I'm glad  you are not.

Grammy is a music reward show, this is true, the artists are pick my insiders, who most of in the closet, agents, producers and so. Many that are still in the closet, Agents who tell their clients to stay in the close for there careers. Just like those Hollywood producer who use the casting couch with hot new male actors, and then tell them that they most never speak about the couch.... The same bunch of bigots and two faces asshole who will black list a actor who doesn't play their in the closet games.

Now getting back to the person whom the post was about. I guess you are now happy to that the person in question was recently arrested on federal drug charges, nothing really new there.

Also I really don't care if you post Anonymous at all, but a name would have been nice..

 Now for the latter, just who am I, please do tell. Just how you think  you know me, and my own ideology, and thoughts on the LGBT community.. 

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Its that time again, where young LGBT will try to get arrest for the right to talk

to students on the grounds of Christians Schools and Colleges... Lets here it for Police Records,,, that will follow then for ever..

yes 23 LGBT Students/community members will once again try to chat with the invisible LGBT community at many Christians Colleges this up coming year. Many will be arrest. 

Their ages range from 18 to 28, this is the range that they fell is core to young activist status.. I said its agism at it worst.. Yes young LGBT members who might have one be out for a short have more life experience then those whom have been out for over five or more years..

see here

Core Values:
1. We believe in relentless nonviolent resistance against religious and political oppression of LGBTQ people.
2. We believe in full inclusion and equality for all. unless you want to help with the ride, then you must be under 28,, sorry no old folks allowed...
3. We believe in the fierce urgency of now.
4. We believe that truth, love, and justice will ultimately prevail.
5. We believe in empowering people. Once again on those under 28 need to apply
6. We believe that the LGBTQ community consists of people from every race, class, and walk of life and that the liberation of LGBTQ people cannot be achieved without working in solidarity against all forms of discrimination and oppression. Yet they forget that there are older LGBT in the world.....
7. We believe in resisting injustice.
8. We believe in changing hearts and minds.
9. We believe that our adversaries are as much victims of untruth as we have been.
10. We believe our task is to relentlessly bring our adversaries truth using the methods of love.
11. We believe in absorbing any violence against us in an action as voluntary redemptive suffering without retaliation or complaint.
12. We believe in the importance of a personal commitment to live and become the change we seek.

No matter how you feel, check out the riders bio and make a donation.... they will be more then happy to accept money from old folks......

See what happen when you piss off the Trannys

if you do they will make you life a living hell

see below,
over at Bilerico, bill allow a post concerning Transexuals by Ronald Golds. So what did Bill do, he deleted the post, and had this to say.

See members of our community want to write about the others, but don't let them write about us...

See how our has change and not for the good... If your opinion doesn't mean with community approval they will find a way to remove you.

HRC is getting just like our enemies

This is from NOM Post,

Gay-marriage netroots are increasingly looking for someone to blame. Over at Queerty, a gay website, some people are calling for a boycott of the Human Rights Campaign, the nation’s leading gay rights organization. Why? Because well, gay and lesbian Americans have funneled over $500 million dollars to HRC over the last 20 years and (some say) have very little to show for it legislatively. Yes, that is half a billion dollars, with a “b,” that HRC has had to throw around–$43 million in the last year alone.
The piece generating this netroots commentary is called, “HRC Can’t Get ENDA Passed, But It Can Get a Disagreeing Journalist Fired.”
It’s a story about Larry Grard, a 58-year-old reporter for the Maine Morning Sentinel, who was so upset by the press release HRC sent out the morning after our great victory in Maine, calling the Yes on One campaign a campaign of “lies and hate,” that he fired off a personal email from his private account in response.
Now, we get lots of emails here at NOM. So what happened next was very telling. Instead of just brushing it off and going aobut their business, HRC decided that what they should do with their 43 million dollars this year is devote staff time to figuring out just who sent that snarky email and seeing if they could get the guy in trouble with his boss.
So Larry Grard is now fired. (His union has filed a grievance and our friend Bill Donohue has taken up the legal case.) To add to the outrage, Maine Today stepped in an abruptly canceled his wife’s cooking column.
“I mean, it’s small is what it is. It’s just absolutely astonishing that they did that. We could not believe it,” he says. “My wife, who absolutely did nothing wrong, [just] because she has the same last name as I do, they discontinued her cooking column, which was enormously popular,” Grard told One News Now.
HRC maintains that it did not try to get Larry or his wife canned. So what did it hope to accomplish? Why exactly did that gargantuan organization devote time and energy to track down Larry Grard, find his boss, and then get this small-town reporter in trouble with his boss because he shot off an email disagreeing with gay marriage?

Nice HRC getting those who don't agree with thier sorry asses fired, Now Anti-Str8 can HRC get. I can only guess that Joe thinks his ass is a fucking GOD,

HRC once a great ideal, now just a big pile of horse shit.

Does It Matter?

My parents asked me if I am gay

I said, "Does it matter?"
They said, "No, not really."
I told them, "Yes."
They said, "Get out of our lives."
I guess it mattered.

My boss asked me if I am gay.

I said, "Does it matter?"
He said, "No, not really."
I told him, "Yes."
He said, "You're fired, faggot."
I guess it mattered.

My friend asked me if I am gay.

I said, "Does it matter?"
He said, "No, not really."
I told him, "Yes."
He said, "Don't call me your friend."
I guess it mattered.

My partner asked, "Do you love me?"

I said, "Does it matter?"
He said, "Yes."
I told him, "I love you."
He said, "Let me hold you in my arms."
For the first time in my life something matters.

My God asked, "Do you love yourself?"

I said, "Does it matter?"
He said, "Yes."
I asked, "How can I love myself? I am gay."
He said, "That's the way I made you."
Nothing again will ever matter.

--Author Unknown

Friday, December 11, 2009

Journalist argues same-sex 'marriage,' loses job

A journalist in Maine has been fired from a publication after 19 years for replying to a homosexual activist's e-mail.
Larry Grard, 58, of Winslow covered the November election for Maine Today, the vote in which Maine citizens rejected homosexual "marriage." Subsequently, he received a press release at work from a homosexual activist which read: "We will not allow the lies and hate – the foundation on which our opponents build their campaign – to break our spirits." Being a devout Catholic, Grard was offended by the release's blanket reference to opponents of same-sex marriage.

Human Rights Campaign"Trevor Thomas, who was representing the Human Rights Campaign, complained people who voted 'yes' on [Question] 1, which is [a referendum] against gay marriage, were haters. I took offense to that," Grard explains. "I copied his e-mail address into my personal e-mail at work and kind of fired back at him."

Regardless of the fact that his e-mail reply was done through his personal account, Grard was ultimately fired for his "unethical" and "unprofessional" rebuttal, and he believes it was because he defended traditional marriage. He was further astonished a week later when his wife received a letter from Maine Today.

"I mean, it's small is what it is. It's just absolutely astonishing that they did that. We could not believe it," he says. "My wife, who absolutely did nothing wrong, [just] because she has the same last name as I do, they discontinued her cooking column, which was enormously popular."

Grard, who suffers from chronic insomnia and prostate cancer and whose wife is diabetic, says the loss of employment has made it difficult for his family to make ends meet. He believes he is now paying a price for being a committed Christian who took a stance for traditional marriage.

Now nice, we have cause this guy and his wife whom did nothing wrong to use there jobs,,
my community is really piss me off, That right you the LGBT,, this will be our down fall...

Don't you just love those Anonymous posters in your comments section

Anonymous has commented on
The message left:
Thanks for the link and the chance to add my name to the petition!
Oh, and "a right to be Nominated and win a ward for his work"? What the hell is in that ganja you're smoking?

Let's see it ok for a singer to sing about beating up her boyfriend and trashing his ride, to get nominated, even thou the song promotes Domestic Violence, Then those who song Fuck the Police,. But if your of anti-gay that mean you don't have the right to get nominated, how nice, gays become anti-straight. I can only guess we have come full circle on the circle of hate wheel.

So dear Anonymous, whom i will guess is still in the fucking closet for some reason, whom is to afraid to post under it's name.

There are many straight people whom I hate, so I guess I'm anti-str8, then again there are many gay people I can't stand either, so I guess now I'm anti-gay.

No matter what we do, no matter how much we try not everyone is going to like us for us. There are those who hate other races then their own. No matter what, everyone who works in the music business has the right to be nominated for their work, we may not agree with the person's personal ideology but to force our own ideology on them is just as wrong as what they want to force on us.

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Glaad is just going to far now

Act Now: Protest Buju Banton’s Grammy Nomination

December 9, 2009 · Leave a Comment
GLAAD has called on community members and allies to contact the Recording Academy and sign an online petition protesting the Grammy nomination of reggae singer Buju Banton’s ninth album “Rasta Got Soul,” and urging Recording Academy members to not support his nomination. The petition can be viewed here:
Click to read the entire post »

Well I hope those who have problems with our gay singers do the same.
Just because he hates gays doesn't mean that he still can't win awards.. If his sells and fans are there to support them he has the right to be Nominated and win a ward for his work..

Glaad doesn't know what truely is Transphobic

This post got my attention ASAP,


Pics of what pissoff GLAAD.

They had this to say
We find it difficult to believe Grunberg’s claims that his comments about Chaz Bono had nothing to do with “the transgender issue” when he very clearly used both male and female pronouns in his first tweet. The deliberate use of both pronouns shows more than simply a lack of understanding of gender identity issues and we call on Grunberg to apologize to Chaz and the transgender community for making such insensitive comments on his Twitter account.

Yet they want us to believe the many stories and news releases they did on Why ABC did what they did to Adam L. Which Glaad white wash to keep the money the ABC gives them each year.. Like the old saying "Don't bit the hand the feeds".

Glaad doesn't need to teach Mr Grunberg a damn thing, GLAAD need to get a Fucking life,

Just who started this shit storm, why our friends over at Bilerico, click here, Click here the person who wrote this was a Transperson so decide it was important to give her life history.

using "Man , she is fat, is not mixing pronouns", just like "Man that bitch is really pissing me off."

Face it the other reason why Glaad picked this up is because who his mommy is...

Glaad is getting just like HRC, money and Attention hogs..

Over at NG2, he had this to said

Calling someone fat is not transphobic.  Calling someone fat is being insensitive.

Ironically, while GLAAD exploits Mr. Grunberg's comments for personal gain, the very same GLAAD is being criticised, again, for the way they are dealing with the Buju Banton/Grammys controversy.  So far, their effort has been an online petition.

Somehow, I don't think Jarret Barrios is going to last long as President.

Monday, December 7, 2009

CBC NEWS HALIFAX - Ale House Bouncers

Proof that since 911, Photography has become a major no no on the street not only here but Canada, and in the UK, Yes the UK has really taken to a whole other level where photographers=Terrorist

When we have an actor suing over gay rumors, and this time it's not T. Cruise can you believe that. 
A group file complaint over a Trans, who didn't get a job, claims this is why we need EDNA,
Would you paid $19 for a bottle of Beer. I know there will be some that will.
Many are still piss off at GLAAD for their own double standard, regarding ABC, who writes them very big checks

Thursday, December 3, 2009

What is Autumn Sandeen Smoking lately???

Of all the shit to put out there for our enemies to see and read and use against us in the future Autumn Sandeen has giving them more ammo.

To read please visit this page @ Pam's house-blend

So today, on the International Day of Persons with Disabilities, take a moment to think about those who are disabled in terms of harassment and discrimination -- things that lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people and other people in protected classes experience.

And too, take a moment to think about the intersections of minority communities -- we have people who identify as LGBT community members who also identify as disabled. Many of us belong to more than one identity group, and experience harassment and discrimination exponentially because we are identified as double, triple, and even quadruple minorities -- Disability being one of those minority experiences that intersects with LGBT.

So lets me get this straight, we are now a bunch of disable LGBT's simply because we are LGBT's. Autumn everyone on this fucking planet faces harassment and Discrimination to some degree, we (LGBT"S) are not the first and surely won't be the fucking last. BUT, TO SAY WE ARE DISABLE IS COMPLETELY WRONG AND YOU NEED TO STOP SMOKING WHATEVER IT IS YOU ARE SMOKING.

First off I don't know why he/she is bitching so much. First off he got the serve his country, he got a honorable discharge, and receive a 100% disable from the Gov't yet she is constantly facing harassment and discrimination, wow, It must be hard to be her. I wonder if the most of this so called harassment and discrimination is of her own making.

The thing you find online

found at guys with iphones... site
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Wednesday, December 2, 2009

Well there will be no marriage vote in Ca in 2010,
Two NC Officials link to anti-gay "The Family"
Actress Meredith Baxter kicks openthe closet door , wow why so late in life?
Catholic Bishop: Gays will never go to heaven, just how do they know this, what makes them so sure they are going to Heaven
Those wacky folks at NOM is having a gay o time this week
ok I confess I don't know much about Lesbian sex, buut do Lesbians really need this book
Well it seems that Facebook is back in the news
Wow, can  you really believe this, Chase Bank and NOM

Saturday, November 28, 2009

LGBT invisibility? or LGBT just not talk about

Is the LGBT Community Invisible, or just not active in public??

Recently a blogger wrote about how it seem that his local LGBT community is invisible,

If XXXXXXXXX hopes to move forward on local LGBT equality, our community will have to step up our public visibility. After all, if our own community and its leadership doesn’t care enough to make a stink over our treatment, why would the general public? It isn’t as if LGBT rights are on the forefront of an average citizen’s mind, you know.

Well that quote could mean just about any local community in North Carolina. There seems to be a  lack of cohesiveness and public advocacy present in many of our LGBT communities. This is not a new problem that popped up over night, however its problem that has decide to hang around for a long time, and we have grown custom to it.

In many of our communities, the members are allowing our local LGBT businesses to fail, ie,our LGBT bookstores, simple because the community would rather shop online then in these bookstore, but once they close the same community bitches about not have such store or business in the community.

It seems to me that the only time our community comes together is after some event or action that effects us. Like losing the right to marriage in CA, or the death/murder of a LGBT person. It seems for those events we can come out in numbers, but after we do very little for our own community. So I ask what gives?? Why is it we can support other communities but not our owns? Do those communities matter more then ours?

Here in NC there is another problem as well, Its deal with our LGBT community leaders or the lack of. The lack of our local news publications to cover our events. When we do make such publications we stand only a 50/50chance the article will be a positive one.

Then there our LGBT publications, not just statewide but country wide. Many of these publication are no longer running, the lucky ones have merge with another LGBT publication. When that happens coverage in many areas do seem to pick up, while at other times coverage seems to die. Those citizens in those area often feel left out or simple fell they don't matter.

When many community members writes and share events it seem that the nearest publication either pick and choose which ones to run or simply just 86 them in the oval filing cabinets, or just hit the delete button. This is one reason why many LGBT community goes invisible, no coverage= no community to care about.

So beside sharing events and stories how do you get your local community paper to pay attention to the whole community of the selected state?? How do you get notice on a state publication in a positive way?

Monday, November 23, 2009

What is PETA's problem

The funny thing is that most of every Peta person will be having turkey and ham this season.

What about all the animals that peta has killed over the years and thrown in trash dumpers...

Here is my Peta, People eating tasty animals

so much for not being too gay

what a ass, don't want to appear tooo gay on the Cover of OUT, but don't mind acting like he is getting a blowjob on stage... What a fucking douche bag Adam Lambert

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Will this happen again this March 2010

Will this be repeated again this March, 2010 when the nutter from NC4Marriage holds their Rally in Raleigh, NC..
Yes i was there, many of our Local leaders didn't want us to hold a counter-protest.. I still have to wonder why???
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Saturday, November 21, 2009

10 Items of interest

  1. it would seem the Canada border police has a problem with a few PG films. 
  2. Ontario MPP reintroduces trans rights bill
  3. wow like many could care Boy George to Be Locked Up on Big Brother
  4. more high hope for with hiv, Have Doctors Found A Way To Kill HIV in it's Tracks?! 
  5. Right or wrong, what is your take, Outing Muslims
  6. He explains,Chaz Bono explains gender on GMA 
  7. Wow he sit doesn't get it Antonin Scalia is still homophobic, still thinks Lawrence is wrong
  8. When is gay too gay for some, Adam Lambert's Big Year is Just Getting Started
  9. For those with the need to see flesh, Playgirl Slowly Reveals the Ultimately Disappointing Levi Johnston Spread 
  10. Judy Shepard on Mercado Murder with passion

Comments before comments

I know my post on the NC Hrc Gala, will get a few comments via mail or comment page.. about the black tie comment.

These Gala are nothing more then a money machine, for HRC, who doesn't want us to win Equality, in marriage or in the military because if we do they (joe) will be out of a job..


WOW 2010 HRC Gala to be held in Raleigh, NC

Wow I can't believe this, it is in Raleigh, I guess I will be attending,  meaning I will be outside getting shots with my camera. I wonder who will be protesting and boycotting them this year..

I guess the local Adult Bookstore will be busy that weekend

The HRC Carolinas Gala committee announces a call for applications for its "Emerging Leader Dinner Scholarships" and "Dinner Fellowships.
One of these scholarships call for you to work off your ticket as a volunteer at the gala..

so how much will it cost this year?????

Ticket Options
Regular Price tickets $175  
Regular Price tickets (After February  10, 2010)
Federal Club Members -NC/SC $75
(limit two)
Federal Club Council / Major Donor  $0
Premium Tables (seats 10)    $2500

just about the same last year..

Oh, before i forget, this Gala is a black-tie ass kissing event..

find them on facebook, twitter.

I wonder just who will be the keynote speaker, the spirits are telling that it will be Joe ass again, who will be the guest of honor????

I wonder will big mouth i got myself kick out of the military Don Choi be there????

While you are there you might what to join the silent auction

so, who are the sponsor this year...

Comment reply

I'm sure your constructive criticism (or lack thereof) could be put to better use. 
Yes I guess it couldbe, like telling how as community we fucking everything up. We are not the true bigots, we are the new antti-hate everyone who doesn't agree with us, if you speak out against us, we will make sure you lose your job, the list goes on and on.

HRC is nothing more then a money making scheme Face it, he we would wake up tomorrow and have every right we always want, what would GLAAD, HRC and other groups do, it would mean they would be out of a job..

These Groups have turn us into nothing more then a FUCKING meal ticket..

Our LGBT community groups don't want Equality, or gay marriage, if this happens their meal ticket goes bye bye. just like true reporters....

thanks to these group, free speech as taken another hit, I wonder how much longer before that right is completely goes, freedom of press now means who is/will give us the most money to report what they want reported. freedom of religion is on life support, all in the name moral standards,

We bitch when religious group push there beliefs on us, but is ok for us to do to them and then tell them that they can't bitch/complain about it.

Friday, November 20, 2009

Gay Blog Site gets a pass using degrading word "Fag"

Notice the caption FAG FEUDS. Now if this was on any blog at wasn't a gay blog Glaad would be all over it...

Whatever happen too??? Lockdown..

Last year Q-notes published pieces from a inmate here in NC, who was doing time for have sex with an underage teenager, He admitted to his mistakes and was doing his time for those mistakes.

He wrote a few great pieces that Qnotes published over time, then someone had a problem with those pieces, so what did the staff do, their held a poll, well the poor fellow lose, the person who started the bitchfest claim we shouldn't give a Sexual Offender a platform, how nice..

Here is the ugly gay truth, How many gay males over their lifetime has had sex with a 16, 17, or under?? Hell many of those gay teenagers went after older men. How many 18 yo gay men had sex with their highschool boyfriend who happen to be 17, remember under current laws in many state this is a crime... I speak from experience, when I was 15, i went after a 30 yo guy, simply because i hear he was hung as a horse, at 16 it as a cute sales rep from the food service where my boss got her food from.. So if these two guys were charged today they just might find themselves in the same place where Joe is today. Also who was really in the wrong? 

Yet the good folks over at Q-note has decide either not to publish anymore pieces from Joseph, are he decide not to write anymore. If it was Q-notes decision that would mean that they give into the small minded bigots in our community.

[Ed. Note This column marks the last in Joseph Urbaniak s limited-run column. We hope our readers had a chance to read Urbaniak s writings with an open mind and eyes. We thank Joe for the chance to publish his columns.]

Ok look at this, and tell me what happen then..
The Q-Notes editorial team is standing by our original decision to publish Joseph Urbaniak’s limited-run column. We are well aware that 60 percent of those who participated in the online QPoll regarding the issue say we should stop publishing it. While we’re fortunate to be blessed by a readership unafraid to tell us what they think, we’ll hope our readers believe they’re fortunate to have a media presence that isn’t easily swayed by the ever-changing, volatile and emotionally-reactive whims of public opinion.
A principled news outlet that intends to publish with integrity, accuracy, honesty and responsibility can’t operate by majority vote. If Q-Notes were to stop publishing columns or writing on issues with which a small majority of readers disagreed or found uncomfortable, a lot of our very cherished, important content would disappear overnight.
So did Q-note stop???

So tell the truth, have you since becoming and adult (18+) had sex with a underage male??? However I bet you do take a good long look at those hot twinks when they are not looking????

Lockdown: Love Feast

by Joseph Urbaniak | March 7th, 2009, 1:10 pm | No Comments »

Lockdown: Rainbow Sneakers

by Joseph Urbaniak | February 21st, 2009, 12:08 am | No Comments »

Lockdown: Queer cook

by Joseph Urbaniak | February 7th, 2009, 1:11 pm | No Comments »

Lockdown: Tang

by Joseph Urbaniak | January 24th, 2009, 2:11 pm | No Comments »

Lockdown: Too many fags

by Joseph Urbaniak | January 10th, 2009, 12:09 am | No Comments »

Lockdown: It can’t happen to me

by Joseph Urbaniak | December 27th, 2008, 12:12 am | 5 Comments »

Lockdown: Wayne

by Joseph Urbaniak | December 13th, 2008, 12:11 am | No Comments »

Lockdown: Prison love

by Joseph Urbaniak | November 29th, 2008, 12:15 am | No Comments »

Lockdown – You’re out!

by Joseph Urbaniak | November 15th, 2008, 12:15 am | No Comments »

Gay rights on lockdown

An inmate details his ongoing court battle with the N.C. Dept. of Corrections
by Joseph Urbaniak | November 1st, 2008, 12:08 am | No Comments »

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Holy cow shit WTF

It must be bad when you need to had women's equity to LGBT equity to get people to come to it...

Nov. 21 • Cullowhee
Equality festival

Western Carolina University’s UNITY presents Fight for Equal Rights 2009, a festival celebrating and supporting the continuation of equality and civil rights including women’s rights and LGBT rights. For more information, contact the group at or through their Facebook page at
Once again we have strange bedfellows in our mist. First off what the hell does Women Equality have to do with LGBT Equality?? Ooops that right most of LGBT equality does center around the Lesbians, so I guess it goes hand and hand. We talk about LGBT's being second class citizens, when in truth lately Men have become second class citizens...

Some problems heres

Women robbed at Battle Park

From Staff Reports

Monday, November 16, 2009
Two Rocky Mount women told police they were robbed at gunpoint late Saturday at Battle Park.
The 18- and 20-year-old victims said they were parked near the boat ramp at the park around 10:30 p.m. when a man wearing a bandana over his face and a red sweatshirt appeared from the wooded area next to the ramp. The victims said the man was carrying a long gun with a wooden stock.
The man pointed the gun at the driver, removed both victims from the car and ordered them to the ground.
A second man appeared and ransacked the women’s car, taking a Tinkerbell purse, money, a credit card and two cell phones.
The gunman fired a shot before fleeing the scene, the women said.
The victims left and reported the incident 15 minutes later from one of their homes.
The women said the gun-wielding suspect looked to be between 18 and 20 years old, and about 5-foot-9. They didn’t get a good look at the other man, the victims said.

First off, this park closes at sunset, so why was to women sitting in a park by the only boat ramp that late at nite. Now if this was to guys I would say that they were getting it on. So was these to ladies making out at the park at that time of nite??? so they left and went home to call for help, MMM, when leaving this park if they turn right there are business where they could seek help from, if they turn left they could have went downtown to the police station.. Something is a foot here.....

Today's Quote, and something to think about

If they can so easy pass laws to ban us from Marriage, none of our rights can be taken for granted.

If community standards are, reason enough to Legislate anti-anytype discrimination, the backside of our freedom as begun

I beg you to take a good look at the election result from around the country, get in touch with your anger, and put it to work.

If we do not, I promise our community will be attack by the fascist right in the name of decency and family values with unprecedented vigor, better to find your anger now then to wait for the next election and ask where are my rights.
by Harvey Fierstein

Children should't be subject to life long medical choices

Very interesting statement, which I'm sure the #transinc community will claim to be Transphobic.. in natural. There is nothing bias ...