Thursday, March 28, 2013

HRC shows their true Colors

From Get off my Runway,

“The Human Rights Campaign asked us to take down our trans* flag because ‘marriage equality is not a transgender issue.’
They said this to one of our activists as well as a transgender person who held the flag. We stood our ground, and flew our flag proudly.
That flag flew behind the podium ALL day today, keep an eye for it on the news.”

This apparently happened twice. Well done, HRC. Well done. But I’m not allowed to be critical of your campaign. Get the fuck out of here.

HRC once again whats the T out of our movement.. Chad is like Joe only in it for the pay Check

,p>HRC is also facing criticism from United We Dream’s Queer Undocumented Immigrant Project. In a video posted to YouTube today, QUIP leader Jerssay Arredondo claims his speech at an HRC-organized event at the Supreme Court was revised by the national LGBT group.

HRC’s full statement below: “Tuesday and Wednesday were historic days for our community, as thousands of LGBT people gathered in front of the Supreme Court and in every state across the country to demonstrate their support for marriage equality. HRC was proud to play a role in these events as a member of the United for Marriage coalition, the group which organized the gathering at the Supreme Court. Marriage equality is an issue that fundamentally impacts hundreds of thousands of LGBT people and families across our nation and is greater than any one organization.

“It was agreed that featuring American flags at our program was the best way to illustrate this unifying issue which is why when managing the area behind the podium, several people were asked to move who were carrying organizational banners, pride flags or any other flag that was not an American flag. Several people refused and they were allowed to stay. The coalition welcomed the variety of signs and flags that were throughout the plaza that demonstrated the wonderful diversity of our community.

“It is a not true to suggest that any person or organization was told their flag was less important than another – this did not occur and no HRC staff member would ever tolerate such behavior. To be clear, it is the position of the Human Rights Campaign that marriage is an issue that affects everyone in the LGBT community.

“The events at the Court featured lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender speakers as well as LGBT families, religious leaders, Republicans, military spouses and civil rights activists. This has been a historic week and truly demonstrated how all of us – lesbian, gay, bisexual and straight, transgender and cisgender – can unite as one voice to advocate for our constitutional rights.”

Once again HRC Thinks they own our movement..


NC LGBT’s kissing Hagan ass how..

Hagan only recently decided to back SSM, and the local NC LGBT Community goes ape shit for her,

On Wednesday, Hagan announced she fully supported same-sex marriage rights.

“I know there are strong feelings on both sides, and I have a great deal of respect for their opinions,” Hagan told Raleigh’s News & Observer. “But after much thought and prayer on my part this is where I am today.

NEWS Flash, she only come out after being Slam by the Huff Post for not supporting SSM. Like any ass kissing Politician she had to turn very bad PR into Good PR..

The Huffington Post home page, as of this writing, has a blistering top story slamming the remaining ten Senate Democrats who refuse to back gay marriage.  You can see a screen capture of HuffPo’s home page below.


now since Hagan has officially comes out for SSM, the local members of the LGBT Democrats of NC are raising money for her. Yes these “push overs” set a $2,500. goal, but raise over $2,000 for her campaign..

As LGBT Americans, we need people to come together and support the candidates that support our values. Sen. Hagan's courageous support of marriage equality will make her an even bigger target for the Republicans. As she's supported us, we need to support her! This gay's for Kay and I hope you are too! Take this opportunity and donate today.

Even if, they only decided to support us after some very bad press, and after Two historic court Case in Washington DC were heard, over Prop 8 and DOMA..

it will never change LGBT community loves to be used for any thing these days.

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

You got to be F-ing joking

Really, seriously, after you make it known that I not good enough to comment, or share anything till I apology to many gayinc’ers for my opinions, which I have the right too.. Now you want my help, want me to share my photos with you guys..   get a clue

Qnotes to Eastern NC F-U, you just don’t matter

Before March 25th did anyone read in Qnotes that Wilson Cruz would be at ECU in Greenville?? I bet not, after 25th you might have.

They claim they didn’t know he was coming to ECU, and that they can’t be everywhere all the time..

But you can bet your last dollar that if Wilson Cruz was coming to Charlotte they would have been all over it, like ticks on a hound dog..

there more,

please Qnotes (yes I’m paraphrasing)said that the Eastern NC  was  waste of time any money. Since many location in east no longer gets their print issues, while they can be found on almost every street in Charlotte and Adult bookstores in Charlotte, Durham, and Raleigh.. and most of the gay bars all west of interstate 95.. (Fay, and Wilm isn’t really about of Eastern NC, they are more southern then east)

Friday, March 22, 2013

Glaad’s Rich Ferraro is having a major hissy fit..

GLAAD to Fox News_If you want to attend our events, stop attacking LGBT people – LGBTQ Nation_2013-03-22Glaad is right out pissed that two, not one but two of their employees had the nerve to buy and attend their media Award Gala in NY. Yes their Communications President Rich Ferraro, has his undies in so many knots that he can’t piss right.. however it seen there is an email where a Glaad Executive encouraged these two ladies to attend the event..

In a statement to Equality Matters, which is run by Media Matters Action Network, GLAAD’s vice president of communications Rich Ferraro used Colby and Guilfoyle’s attendance to condemn Fox News:

If Kimberly and Jamie expect to attend future GLAAD events, they will first need to sit down with us to discuss Fox News’ embarrassing, biased and misinformed coverage of LGBT issues. The invitation is open. Fox News’s track record on LGBT issues is abysmal, and it makes no sense to me why any LGBT people or allies would want to be a part of that.

TVNewser has obtained an email from GLAAD director of creative development Marc Honaker urging a current FNC staffer to “ask [Roger] Ailes or Suzanne [Scott] to buy a table for FNC.”

see email


so a Glaad person invites them and their Pres. of Com gets his panties all wet because they attend the event..

Its simple really Fox News won’t kiss Glaad’s self entitled ass..

My two cent to Glaad, is the fucking grow up and stop their bullying of people and business..

love this quote,

So let me get this straight. Glaad holds an event to encourge people to be inclusive and then a spokesperson for GLAAD castigates two women who were in attendance threatening that if they want to attend future GLAAD events they need to jump through some hoops because of who their employer is. Seems to me that Rich Ferraro is confused on the concept of inclusion. Obviously he has no idea how to be gracious. He was also barking up the wrong tree. I will tell you that as the First Lady of San Francisco Kimberly Guilfoyle was totally committed to the Gay community.

Dan Choi Back in Court, what a douchebag

Dan Choi trial to resume March 28: "The trial, which began in August 2011, has been on hold for more than a year over procedural disputes. The prosecutor initiated a highly unusual procedure known as a Writ of Mandamus that successfully overturned a ruling by the judge allowing Choi’s attorneys to argue that Choi was targeted for 'selective' and 'vindictive' prosecution."

Folks without a Life,

A line has already begun forming at the Supreme Court to hear arguments on Proposition 8 and DOMA which are next week on Tuesday and Wednesday. The line apparently began forming yesterday.


(image patrick terpstra twitter)

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

Gayinc pushes for more cancelations

I understand that her mouth got her in trouble, but now Gayinc is bullying Venues to Cancel Michelle Shocked’s Concerts,

On Sunday, folk singer and onetime Lilith Fair regular Michelle Shocked stunned a San Francisco audience with a vicious anti-gay tirade. (Source: Shocked told the crowd that she lived in fear of same-sex marriage and even co-opted the rhetoric of the Westboro Baptist Church, an anti-gay hate group, by declaring that "God hates fags."

see below,

Equality-Minded Performance Spaces: Cancel Upcoming Michelle Shocked Concerts After Vile Anti-Gay Tirade

    1. Petition by

      John Becker

      Burlington, VT

Phyllis Stein, Manager, Michelle Shocked
Phillip Stein, U.S. Booking Agent
Andy Cooper, Tom Tom Music, UK/Europe Booking Agent
Hugo Mendez, Street Team, Tour Marketing/Management
Burg Herzberg Festival, Breitenbach am Herzberg, Germany
Klinkers Festival, Brugge, Belgium
Kings Place Folk Union, London, UK

I am writing to ask you to cancel folk singer Michelle Shocked's upcoming performance at your venue.
On Sunday, March 18, Michelle Shocked stunned a San Francisco audience with a vicious anti-gay tirade. (Source: Shocked told the crowd that she lived in fear of same-sex marriage and even co-opted the rhetoric of the Westboro Baptist Church, an anti-gay hate group, by...

I am writing to ask you to cancel folk singer Michelle Shocked's upcoming performance at your venue.
On Sunday, March 18, Michelle Shocked stunned a San Francisco audience with a vicious anti-gay tirade. (Source: Shocked told the crowd that she lived in fear of same-sex marriage and even co-opted the rhetoric of the Westboro Baptist Church, an anti-gay hate group, by declaring that "God hates fags."
Audience members reportedly walked out in disgust.
Freedom of speech and artistic expression are critically important, but this isn't free speech. This is hate speech. And in a world where LGBT people are bullied from the pulpit, on the playground, and at the polls, anti-gay hate speech can have serious consequences including legitimizing bullying and hate crimes, and increasing victims' risk of anxiety, depression, and suicide.
Do you believe, as Michelle Shocked apparently does, that "God hates fags?" More importantly, does your performance venue want to be associated with an artist who promotes that kind of ugly hatred? I would hope not.
A venue in Illinois has already cancelled Michelle Shocked's upcoming appearance there in light of her anti-gay rant. To avoid appearing to condone hate speech, I suggest you do the same and cancel Michelle Shocked's performance at your venue.

[Your name]

yet they claim Gayinc doesn’t bully people or Business. What a bunch of shit.

Monday, March 18, 2013

Gays acting badly in Greenville, NC

Not sure on this but I wouldn’t be surprise if the group of folks who were meeting at a local Restaurant in Greenville, didn’t patronize the restaurant that was allowing them to meet there for free..

FYI: tonight in Greenville, EqualityNC was to hold a meeting,

Community leaders in Greenville, NC, are continuing their ongoing work towards equality!
Join Greenville activists on working to strengthen community activism and build bases of support in faith, business and
rural communities. Take action for Equality.,

I’m not sure if it happen, or if it was a great success, however I have to wonder what the hell is wrong with the LGBT Community in Greenville, after reading the following from the local social Hub/tea shop that was hosting the meeting.

If you are having a meeting at Tipsy, you are meeting in a restaurant. With big bills: Electric, payroll, rent, etc. Please do us the courtesy of making a purchase without us having to get all passive aggressive on you! Thank you.

Really Folks, she allow you to meet for free, you can’t buy a drink, a salad or a damn sandwich to help the place out. She is giving you valuable income space for free. The owner of the Tipsy Teapot goes out of her way to help and support her community. She gracious allow local community groups to use the other after of the shop for meeting and parties- most of the time for free or very little cost. Yet in turn its not much to ask that you patronize her business while there. Times are hard for everyone, its even harder for local small business too. 

Will Gayinc Push for this Asst. Professor to be removed

Homocon asshats Doug Mainwaring and Robert Oscar Lopez have joined the NOM payroll as speakers at next week's Hate March on the Supreme Court.  Both signed onto a Supreme Court brief against LGBT civil rights and last week both testified against their own people before the Minnesota legislature. (from the kept boy blog..)homoconasshats Since Gayinc demands anyone who doesn’t support their Cause to be remove from their jobs, how long will it take.Before they demand University of Northridge to get rid of Robert Oscar Lopez.

This is the same group that had Demanded that a whole company be remove from a college campuses in 2012 and 2013.. (chick-fil-a)

Here recently they have bullied several performers to back out on the NOM and the Boy Scouts. while claim they had nothing to with, that the performers only recently realized  that NOM and Boy Scouts don’t like “the Gays”..

When will Gayinc stop their Str8phobia.

Friday, March 15, 2013

Nothing good to read

that is in this bi-weekly issue of Qnotes,

QNotes Gay Charlotte and LGBT Carolina News, Arts & Entertainment_2013-03-15

nothing good at all.. complete waste of paper and MB’s space..

Thursday, March 14, 2013

What is this Cis Shit, in our community??

we wonder why we are attack over and over, and why so many think Transsexual/transgender need medical attention..


I agree with 3 and 4, but 2 is complete bullshit, if you look like a ma am, that is what I going to call, if you look like a sir that is what I going to call you. and for 5 the last time I check there was only two genders on this planet.. Male and Female.

Glaad Bans the NY Post from it Gala

Glaad Media Awards will be taking place in Manhattan Saturday, this is just one of few awards galas that will be held this year. This year in NY they will be honoring Anderson Cooper, a once closet case to the highest order. They will be giving him the Vito Russo Award, and it it said Madonna will be presenting the award to him, how nice.

The New York Post, I guess asked for a press pass and it was denied due to the fact the NY Post doesn’t play nicely with the LGBT Community. More importantly they, The Post won’t bow down to Glaad, that is one reason too.

GLAAD was founded in 1985 to challenge The New York Post's blatantly anti-gay coverage of the HIV/AIDS crisis. More than 27 years later, the paper continues to defame the LGBT community with its sensational framing of transgender stories and its disgraceful practice of referring to transgender people with vulgar slurs. "The Post has been digging its feet in the ground for too long on this issue," said GLAAD President Herndon Graddick. "Transgender people, particularly those who are victims of crime, deserve more than the vile slurs and underhanded 'jokes' with which the Post describes them. Until this paper changes its ways and apologizes for the damage done, GLAAD has no interest in supporting their work."

Glaad is apart of Gayinc, which here lately is nothing more than a Bully Organization. They have been criticize for goes easy on those network that do bash or really make fun of  the LGBT community if the network gives them a very large donation.. Those networks that don ‘t gets their full attention.

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

Greenville Finally get some much need Attention from Equality NC.

I guess after months of bitching and complaining how Eastern NC is always left out by Equality NC and Qnotes, it must be paying off. At least one way, Equality NC has host more meeting Greenville. Either it beside the finally figured out that Eastern NC is important after the lost of Amendment 1, where ENC coming ignore the East.. Then again could it be a small group of folks are trying get the community together once again and revive the Down East Gay Pride.

Here is the latest news from Equality NC event that will be happen on the 18th of this month, yes once again very short notice.. turn out much be low once again.

Greenville Community Action Night_2013-03-13

no much to go..

Monday, March 11, 2013

Light the Way to Justice | Fayetteville Vigil done correct

Light the Way to Justice_Fayettevile Vigil_2013-03-11

Equality NC no location for Charlotte but event created

Light the Way to Justice_Charlotte Vigil_2013-03-11

what is with ENC with all this half ass shit they are doing here lately.

ENC half ass on Greensboro Event

Light the Way to Justice_Greensboro Vigil_2013-03-11

still no location..

However their Asheville event was done right

Once again Equality NC does a half ass job

Really, they post a Facebook Event location TA, really how hard is it to get a location before you post the event. I guess Tracey Hollister and Madeline Goss is new to setting up events for Equality NC.

Light the Way to Justice_Raleigh Vigil_2013-03-11

they did a updated while I was posting this,


As the Supreme Court judges the fate of DOMA and Prop 8, join us for as we call for full LGBT equality.
Vigils will be taking place across the country as the nation's highest court hears oral arguments in the Prop 8 and DOMA cases on March 26 and 27.
Equality NC is honored to host the March 26th vigil led by community leaders Tracey Hollister and Madeline Goss.
The event will involve:
* Featured speakers
* Candlelight vigil
* Live tweeting other state & national events. #Light2Justice
More vigils are being planned across the state and country as a growing coalition of organizations and communities stand together for full equality, including events hosted by Equality NC and Campaign for Southern Equality. Join one near you:
Want to plan your own event? For more information visit,

However still no location..

NC Values Coalition Busing folk to DC this March 26

Yes they are, the cost is fifty buck, which I’m think about doing to get there, since no LGBT marriage equality isn’t doing anything to help our Community to get their. They only provide travel and lodging info that all, as usual they want our money and give us nothing in return



Once again our opposition have their shit together why our (lgbt) orgs play the like game on Facebook. yes our Orgs can’t help sponsor a bus cause they don’t have the funds, yet they have the funds to hold these expensive galas to ass kiss those in Hollywood and the rich old white men that are in the closet..

It would be cheaper for me to pay NCVC 50 bucks then to take a bus or train..

Saturday, March 9, 2013

Light To Justice - Wilson Vigil

  • Sunday, March 24, 2013

  • 7:00pm until 8:00pm

    • Wilson County Courthouse Front Steps (Poor Weather Location TBA). Address: 115 Nash Street E., Wilson, NC

    • Join us for a Wilson vigil as part of a nationwide call for full equality and justice for LGBT people.
      As the US Supreme Court hears oral arguments in the Prop 8 and DOMA cases on March 26 and 27, vigils will be taking place across the country. We are honored to host the March 24th Wilson, N.C. vigil. The event will involve:
      * Speaking and reading by community members
      * Drums by DeeAnn Macomson
      * Fellowship
      Similar vigils are being planned across the country as a growing coalition of organizations and communities stand together for full equality, led by Marriage Equality USA and GetEqual. This is an open-sourced action. Anyone can sign up and plan their own event and list it there, and we encourage you to do so!
      For more information:
      Please pass the word and invite people to come with you (and/or feel free to repost this information)!

    • Glaad NY Gala Needs help

      yes, they could sell enough of those high price chairs , so they are raffling off a free trip to NY to one lucky person ..

      I guess this raffle is to make up their shortage, I wonder who may not get paid.. Facebook_2013-03-09

      Friday, March 8, 2013

      Did Glaad Pressure Carly Rae Jepsen to cancel her Gig at The Boy Scout Jamboree

      On Twitter this week, Jepsen said: ‘As an artist who believes in equality for all people, I will not be participating in the Boy Scouts of America Jamboree this summer. I always have and will continue to support the LGBT community on a global level and stay informed on the ever-changing landscape in the ongoing battle for gay rights in this country and across the globe.’

      The fact is that She said yes to the Boys Scouts, then bow out after Glaad got on her via Change,org thru a Petition by a former Eagle Scout Derek Nance who is gay.

      Now I bet last month when the Scout was deciding to end their ban on Gay scouts – if they did, Ms Jespen would still be headlining their Jamboree.

      Gayinc is attacking anyone and everyone who doesn’t bow down to them, In fact Glaad is now a LGBT supported Bully.

      So just how did Glaad Bully her, did they threaten her with boycotts. I bet they did.. However she did know the BS policies before agreeing to perform at the Jam, to say she didn’t would a damn lie..

      Sunday, March 3, 2013

      Joemygod has block me from commenting on his Blog..

      Not that I really care, Joe who thinks he god’s gift really need to stop kissing Gayinc Ass for awards and free vacations..

      Joe. My. God._From The_i_New York Daily News_i_20130303_165344.png

      Children should't be subject to life long medical choices

      Very interesting statement, which I'm sure the #transinc community will claim to be Transphobic.. in natural. There is nothing bias ...